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Post by Julia on Mar 28, 2008 10:10:09 GMT 8
Where did that come from Julia? C'mon tell us a story. hehe. nowhere... spur of the moment... sudden burst lang...  |
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Post by kukai on Mar 28, 2008 12:19:36 GMT 8
Champion Julia  Just like Ben Dover --> i love this thread... I agree with marcs too --> honesty... (is such a lonely word) For now i will just observe and read  |
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Post by jongster on Mar 28, 2008 12:29:40 GMT 8
for me - EVEN IF YOU MARRY THE ONE - you will still meet someone better than that person. As the day goes by, no matter who you are with or who you are pursuing, you will meet someone better. The question is - as you meet these people, who would you choose to be with for the rest of your life.
I know a number of people who has been with the one and married the one, but then again keeps being infidel! Oh well . . . dats life. que sera sera!
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Post by DarKman on Mar 28, 2008 13:52:52 GMT 8
I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't.
I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine.
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Post by ATO on Mar 28, 2008 14:05:29 GMT 8
I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine.  |
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Post by arcireyes on Mar 28, 2008 14:11:37 GMT 8
 kakalungkot naman your story (trans:koreanovela). no wonder you married your bike ;D j/k lang brad   I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine.
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Post by leflea on Mar 28, 2008 14:17:15 GMT 8
was she the one you were referring to on another thread? hope not, because if it is then that is really a sad story. I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine. |
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Post by leflea on Mar 28, 2008 14:30:06 GMT 8
luksa mode pa rin? (still grieving?) I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine. |
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Post by bongjumper on Mar 28, 2008 14:54:30 GMT 8
I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine. It's better to be late than Never... I don't believe this compatibility issue. From 2G to 3G... ;D Everything happened is your destiny... You only regret because you can not have them all... and what you don't have is what you cherish most... mixed emotions... kaya over ride yong feeling sa better half mo... Your lucky, because someone cherish you... but other are luckier because so many cherish them...  so just grab all the blessings and don't think too much... "wala ng isip-isip, tira ng tira" (trans. share your blessing and make them happy)... ;D |
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Post by Ben Dover on Mar 28, 2008 19:58:40 GMT 8
I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine. these words are real...i can almost feel the pain.  yeah, some guys are really lucky, i believe that...some guys have to exert little more effort for the relationship to work...but the important thing is they were able to achieve the same good results...and thats not bad at all. you might be wrong on the second paragraph too |
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Post by knobbyist on Mar 28, 2008 20:11:13 GMT 8
I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine. is she the reason why you left your home planet Julien, if that is even your real name. hahaha! just being an ss here brad. that really is quite a sad statement. but i hope you don't stick to it. i know its such a cliché but you are still young and before your time is done, you would have found 20 The ONE's. |
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Post by bikedaddy on Mar 28, 2008 20:56:39 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... Dump the first, plain and simple. Here's why.. 1. You've been waiting for her. 2. She asked you (marry me, NOW!!!) ;D and you seemed to like her more. ...I'd rather be dumped than miserably watch my girl dreaming and giggling.  |
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Post by bikedaddy on Mar 28, 2008 21:10:19 GMT 8
"...... makes love with after a petty fight in the night..."
The "fight" after the fight, the ONE.
SUPER! ;D
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Julia
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Post by Julia on Mar 28, 2008 22:47:21 GMT 8
@ bikedaddy:
AS IN!!! ;D ;D ;D
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Post by mountguitars on Mar 28, 2008 23:03:38 GMT 8
it's never easy. but it really goes back to who you really want to be with. just have to be careful if you really want to be with the person, or you're being swept away with the thought of a new love interest. long relationships are prone to routine and boredom, so a new person is almost always intoxicating. but whatever you decide, you have to be fair to both parties. be honest with them should you decide to do one or the other. the sooner you do it, the better, at least the other party can move on with their life. (as a guy, it's even worse that the girl is just dragging you along coz she doesn't want to hurt you ek ek, pero in her heart there's really no more chemistry. and above all, don't drag the other person along just because you want to keep him/her as backup in case it doens't work out with the other one. the path of true love never did run smooth. ride ka na lang. that'll clear your head wow, you hit the spot marcs. this thread is inspiring ha, hehehe ;D. for somebody who cant decide between apples and oranges, i guess this is a big help. |
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Post by BrusKO on Mar 28, 2008 23:12:26 GMT 8
Did you wish you've read this before buying the Merida frame? he he he ...
Lately, lahat kay Jon INSPIRING!
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Post by mountguitars on Mar 28, 2008 23:44:27 GMT 8
Did you wish you've read this before buying the Merida frame? he he he ... Lately, lahat kay Jon INSPIRING! sarap magbike eh. i dont know how it all ends and i dont want to find out, hehehe ;D. true love talaga, hehehe ;D. by the way, the frame isnt all too bad. i dont want to post any reviews yet coz its too early. besides, kalikot stage pa ko, hehehe ;D. so far so good. |
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Post by enzo on Mar 29, 2008 2:01:19 GMT 8
After all been said, wala pa ring sagot ang thread starter... Stop saying about The ONE, once you have kids, responsibilities sets in and you wont have time to think of the things you thought you missed or missing from your partner. Life has a sick sense of humor when you are at your low and looking for a partner, longing,,, nyeto, none, nil, zero or bokya.. But once they come, when it rains, it "fours" (from a thread). tapos di mo alam kung sino pipliin mo.( No Idea). So you have to be tough and choose wisely, think 1000 times. But if you are still young, I would suggest to enjoy the ride and dont rush things. Most of my friends and male cousins married young, started family early, some got a couple of gF before marrying, some married their 1st love. I got married in my mid 30's. while they were happily going home to the One, i was swinging from one relationship to another, G f in Pque, in Maceda, in QC Makati while partly living in with another one in Manda. All their words were like why dont "you simplify things and settle down" I got tired and wasted going to the process of lying and juggling my time during special holidays so I settled down to the ONE. The thing is, she is the opposite of all those I dated and lived with before, neither was I looking for the qualities she have. married is like death, darating na lang sayo kung darating. kahit di mo hanapin, I guess my wife is very good in catching me thats why we got married. hehehe! joke lang ha. And now, we dont set standards, we just love and and make love not war. And guess what again, most of my cousins and friends? separated and divorced na. dehins sila nagpakasawa muna. I dont look back and say sayang, she could have been the ONE, or she is the ONE. once you have kids, You will say you are lucky you married your wife,,,, then brag to your kids and make your wife's day by saying "Ganyan talaga ang buhay, kung sino pa yung mahal ko, yun ang napangasawa ko" ( I got married to the one I love) You will never have a cold meal and your shirt will always be crisp and ironed well and most of all,,,, let you ride your bike most of the time |
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Post by allegra on Mar 29, 2008 8:56:39 GMT 8
After all been said, wala pa ring sagot ang thread starter... Stop saying about The ONE, once you have kids, responsibilities sets in and you wont have time to think of the things you thought you missed or missing from your partner. Life has a sick sense of humor when you are at your low and looking for a partner, longing,,, nyeto, none, nil, zero or bokya.. But once they come, when it rains, it "fours" (from a thread). tapos di mo alam kung sino pipliin mo.( No Idea). So you have to be tough and choose wisely, think 1000 times. But if you are still young, I would suggest to enjoy the ride and dont rush things. Most of my friends and male cousins married young, started family early, some got a couple of gF before marrying, some married their 1st love. I got married in my mid 30's. while they were happily going home to the One, i was swinging from one relationship to another, G f in Pque, in Maceda, in QC Makati while partly living in with another one in Manda. All their words were like why dont "you simplify things and settle down" I got tired and wasted going to the process of lying and juggling my time during special holidays so I settled down to the ONE. The thing is, she is the opposite of all those I dated and lived with before, neither was I looking for the qualities she have. married is like death, darating na lang sayo kung darating. kahit di mo hanapin, I guess my wife is very good in catching me thats why we got married. hehehe! joke lang ha. And now, we dont set standards, we just love and and make love not war. And guess what again, most of my cousins and friends? separated and divorced na. dehins sila nagpakasawa muna. I dont look back and say sayang, she could have been the ONE, or she is the ONE. once you have kids, You will say you are lucky you married your wife,,,, then brag to your kids and make your wife's day by saying "Ganyan talaga ang buhay, kung sino pa yung mahal ko, yun ang napangasawa ko" ( I got married to the one I love) You will never have a cold meal and your shirt will always be crisp and ironed well and most of all,,,, let you ride your bike most of the time galing fafa! Idol talaga I got married very young It was hit and miss.......her aim was pretty bad haha I dont think we could last 15 min together w/out arguing But I guess I never ran out of punchlines....and she never fails to laugh w/ me Daym,18 years na pala feels like only 5 |
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Julia
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Post by Julia on Mar 29, 2008 23:42:05 GMT 8
@ enzo and allegra:
i salute you... wala akong masabi... (trans: ..................)
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Post by trance03 on Mar 30, 2008 0:51:09 GMT 8
or rather who can make you laugh even in the worst of situations? that would be tolits, tukayo.... i love you ben dover. ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by enzo on Mar 30, 2008 13:15:02 GMT 8
After all been said, wala pa ring sagot ang thread starter... Stop saying about The ONE, once you have kids, responsibilities sets in and you wont have time to think of the things you thought you missed or missing from your partner. Life has a sick sense of humor when you are at your low and looking for a partner, longing,,, nyeto, none, nil, zero or bokya.. But once they come, when it rains, it "fours" (from a thread). tapos di mo alam kung sino pipliin mo.( No Idea). So you have to be tough and choose wisely, think 1000 times. But if you are still young, I would suggest to enjoy the ride and dont rush things. Most of my friends and male cousins married young, started family early, some got a couple of gF before marrying, some married their 1st love. I got married in my mid 30's. while they were happily going home to the One, i was swinging from one relationship to another, G f in Pque, in Maceda, in QC Makati while partly living in with another one in Manda. All their words were like why dont "you simplify things and settle down" I got tired and wasted going to the process of lying and juggling my time during special holidays so I settled down to the ONE. The thing is, she is the opposite of all those I dated and lived with before, neither was I looking for the qualities she have. married is like death, darating na lang sayo kung darating. kahit di mo hanapin, I guess my wife is very good in catching me thats why we got married. hehehe! joke lang ha. And now, we dont set standards, we just love and and make love not war. And guess what again, most of my cousins and friends? separated and divorced na. dehins sila nagpakasawa muna. I dont look back and say sayang, she could have been the ONE, or she is the ONE. once you have kids, You will say you are lucky you married your wife,,,, then brag to your kids and make your wife's day by saying "Ganyan talaga ang buhay, kung sino pa yung mahal ko, yun ang napangasawa ko" ( I got married to the one I love) You will never have a cold meal and your shirt will always be crisp and ironed well and most of all,,,, let you ride your bike most of the time galing fafa! Idol talaga I got married very young It was hit and miss.......her aim was pretty bad haha I dont think we could last 15 min together w/out arguing But I guess I never ran out of punchlines....and she never fails to laugh w/ me Daym,18 years na pala feels like only 5 Me and my wife live in a real world like you do, at least you last 15 minutes coz we last only 10 mins without an argument. But once all steam are out we just laugh at our silliness and deep inside it doesnt matter at all kasi she needs to go back to her cooking and me driving the kids to school. but she always ask me everytime I make her laugh and she said " I laugh my piss out and siguro dami kang nabobola na chicks with your humor?" I just said "we click that why you laugh at my jokes or you're just pretending" I hope she believes that. ;D |
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Post by jd00 on Mar 31, 2008 19:13:10 GMT 8
salute you brad enzo, definitely your "tHE MAN" brad...
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Post by enzo on Mar 31, 2008 21:06:35 GMT 8
It's irritating when somebody tells you, they have found the one when in fact, they are into a relationship... cant stick to one! everytime there's somebody new in their lives, they found the one... puro the one... but they never realized that the one they are looking for maybe is the one who you wake up with and makes love with after a petty figth in the night... they dont look closely lang... they always look into "whats wrong with this person"... not into "this person completes me"... why cant people be contented... nothing is too late... we just have to see an imperfect partner perfectly... so that at the end of the day, we can say that YES, I've found "THE ONE"...and i married "THE ONE". Di ko nabasa ito ah! Mismo!= Correct! |
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Post by absolutezero on Apr 1, 2008 11:38:29 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... i had this situation when i was about to marry my gf then whose my wife now.. the other girl whom i really would want to spend the rest of my life with, came back and was trying to win me back..was into pins and needles that time because the thought of having the girl that you loved before and whom you really wanted is infront of you saying she'd be a submissive wife if ever i'd marry her and give up my gf then whom i was suppose to marry... my decision.. i talked to the girl and asked her to move on without me, that there will never be the two us..i thanked her for knowing that she still loves me that much but it is never right and enough to give up my gf whom i am supposed to marry....that i may be hurting for my decision but i wanted to think that there is nothing that i should regret about for it is still always the best way to stay at the right track..that most of the right things are really the most difficult to do..but that was the right thing to do.. that i'd be whole of a man to stick to my decision of marrying wy wife...my wife who saw me and was with me on my best and on my simpliest..even on my worst... that i knew inside me that everything will be fine...more better now that we will be having our baby...that i love my wife and our baby in her womb more than anyone else.. that they are my ultimate end and the reason for me to be a better person.. i had to wishes then.. first is not to regret my decision..second is to be happy with my decision... i got both! |
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Post by Julia on Apr 1, 2008 22:31:43 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... i had this situation when i was about to marry my gf then whose my wife now.. the other girl whom i really would want to spend the rest of my life with, came back and was trying to win me back..was into pins and needles that time because the thought of having the girl that you loved before and whom you really wanted is infront of you saying she'd be a submissive wife if ever i'd marry her and give up my gf then whom i was suppose to marry... my decision.. i talked to the girl and asked her to move on without me, that there will never be the two us..i thanked her for knowing that she still loves me that much but it is never right and enough to give up my gf whom i am supposed to marry....that i may be hurting for my decision but i wanted to think that there is nothing that i should regret about for it is still always the best way to stay at the right track..that most of the right things are really the most difficult to do..but that was the right thing to do.. that i'd be whole of a man to stick to my decision of marrying wy wife...my wife who saw me and was with me on my best and on my simpliest..even on my worst... that i knew inside me that everything will be fine...more better now that we will be having our baby...that i love my wife and our baby in her womb more than anyone else.. that they are my ultimate end and the reason for me to be a better person.. i had to wishes then.. first is not to regret my decision..second is to be happy with my decision... i got both! oh my... it's like "my best friend's wedding"... when julie wants michael back... in the gazebo... remember? |
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Post by DarKman on Apr 2, 2008 9:04:04 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... i had this situation when i was about to marry my gf then whose my wife now.. the other girl whom i really would want to spend the rest of my life with, came back and was trying to win me back..was into pins and needles that time because the thought of having the girl that you loved before and whom you really wanted is infront of you saying she'd be a submissive wife if ever i'd marry her and give up my gf then whom i was suppose to marry... my decision.. i talked to the girl and asked her to move on without me, that there will never be the two us..i thanked her for knowing that she still loves me that much but it is never right and enough to give up my gf whom i am supposed to marry....that i may be hurting for my decision but i wanted to think that there is nothing that i should regret about for it is still always the best way to stay at the right track..that most of the right things are really the most difficult to do..but that was the right thing to do.. that i'd be whole of a man to stick to my decision of marrying wy wife...my wife who saw me and was with me on my best and on my simpliest..even on my worst... that i knew inside me that everything will be fine...more better now that we will be having our baby...that i love my wife and our baby in her womb more than anyone else.. that they are my ultimate end and the reason for me to be a better person.. i had to wishes then.. first is not to regret my decision..second is to be happy with my decision... i got both! I salute you sir... u give us hope with your post. |
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Post by jr on Apr 2, 2008 9:47:06 GMT 8
I believe we all have that ONE person in this world that we are most compatible with. Some are lucky enough to meet. Most don't. I will never marry because i found mine a long time ago, but she can never be mine. these words are real...i can almost feel the pain. yeah, some guys are really lucky, i believe that...some guys have to exert little more effort for the relationship to work...but the important thing is they were able to achieve the same good results...and thats not bad at all. you might be wrong on the second paragraph too Right on..tolits. As a couple adjustments always there until to the end . |
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Post by jr on Apr 2, 2008 9:48:21 GMT 8
"...... makes love with after a petty fight in the night..."The "fight" after the fight, the ONE.SUPER! ;D ;D ;D ;D..nice one. |
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absolutezero
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Post by absolutezero on Apr 2, 2008 11:26:26 GMT 8
i had this situation when i was about to marry my gf then whose my wife now.. the other girl whom i really would want to spend the rest of my life with, came back and was trying to win me back..was into pins and needles that time because the thought of having the girl that you loved before and whom you really wanted is infront of you saying she'd be a submissive wife if ever i'd marry her and give up my gf then whom i was suppose to marry... my decision.. i talked to the girl and asked her to move on without me, that there will never be the two us..i thanked her for knowing that she still loves me that much but it is never right and enough to give up my gf whom i am supposed to marry....that i may be hurting for my decision but i wanted to think that there is nothing that i should regret about for it is still always the best way to stay at the right track..that most of the right things are really the most difficult to do..but that was the right thing to do.. that i'd be whole of a man to stick to my decision of marrying wy wife...my wife who saw me and was with me on my best and on my simpliest..even on my worst... that i knew inside me that everything will be fine...more better now that we will be having our baby...that i love my wife and our baby in her womb more than anyone else.. that they are my ultimate end and the reason for me to be a better person.. i had to wishes then.. first is not to regret my decision..second is to be happy with my decision... i got both! oh my... it's like "my best friend's wedding"... when julie wants michael back... in the gazebo... remember? hi ms julia .. have'nt seen that film .. but my close friends who knew my story would always say that mine is a lil' like of "my bestfriend's wedding" |
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