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Post by krissythebike on Mar 27, 2008 11:34:00 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm....
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Post by Lui-G on Mar 27, 2008 13:02:27 GMT 8
only you can answer that, i guess
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Post by Ben Dover on Mar 27, 2008 13:30:47 GMT 8
its always better to be just late than pregnant. LOL ;D
seriously, choose the one you are comfortable with...yung "madaling kausap" (easy to talk to)...that my friend will spell a lot of difference in your married life.
love? saka na yan! (joke ;D)
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Post by anthrax76 on Mar 27, 2008 13:31:45 GMT 8
ask yourself, who am i going to enjoy growing old with?
or rather who can make you laugh even in the worst of situations?
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Post by knobbyist on Mar 27, 2008 13:37:27 GMT 8
as long as you're not married to the one you're with right now then i don't think its too late. better tell her the truth and break up with her now than cheat on her when you're already married.
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Post by enzo on Mar 27, 2008 13:44:04 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... Question to you, Is this for you? there is something wrong here, if you are waiting for someone, why did you go into a relationship? What do you mean by "the one you have been waiting for?" Were you engaged? in a relationship before? Was she working overseas or in a distant land? Had an agreement beforehand? You have to provide me more info to be able to answer your question.
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Post by ghorio on Mar 27, 2008 13:48:55 GMT 8
Marry somebody whom you cannot live without.... ask yourself, he/she might just be the one you wanted to live with
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Post by knobbyist on Mar 27, 2008 13:58:27 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... Question to you, Is this for you? there is something wrong here, if you are waiting for someone, why did you go into a relationship? What do you mean by "the one you have been waiting for?" Were you engaged? in a relationship before? Was she working overseas or in a distant land? Had an agreement beforehand? You have to provide me more info to be able to answer your question. yeah baby... the love doctor is in the house. hehehe! hi idol enzo.
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Post by gadgets88 on Mar 27, 2008 14:53:48 GMT 8
NOTHING... is ever too late!!!
Anyway, we need more info in order to understand your situation, brother.
It is always wise to be fair, and that means not getting married if you're not convinced you're doing the right thing.
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Post by enzo on Mar 27, 2008 15:04:27 GMT 8
Hi Knobs! Not a love doctor ha! Just trying to help or give opinion. Kasi the line "All is fair in love and war" is true, but that is not a passport to just go into any relationship when someone is hanging on the line. That's why I asked him a few questions. I hope it's not the case or I will have to add more later. ;D
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Post by jd00 on Mar 27, 2008 15:13:45 GMT 8
sometimes life can be tricky, but then again follow ur heart desire....and you will be happy.
But if your a single guy, but if your married and have children, man--- its a different story, consider it as your "soul mate " na lang.... ;D
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Post by gadgets88 on Mar 27, 2008 15:44:43 GMT 8
Hi Knobs! Not a love doctor ha! Just trying to help or give opinion. Kasi the line "All is fair in love and war" is true, but that is not a passport to just go into any relationship when someone is hanging on the line. That's why I asked him a few questions. I hope it's not the case or I will have to add more later. ;D I agree. The rules of fair play do not apply in love and war. But for decency's sake, thread carefully and treat all parties fairly. The world is round, and small... Be creative with your excuses and escape maneuvers!
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Post by leflea on Mar 27, 2008 15:57:25 GMT 8
is there such a thing as "someone you've been waiting for"? are we talking about an ideal person? or literally someone you've been waiting for? What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm....
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Post by g.b.b on Mar 27, 2008 16:17:29 GMT 8
are they both worth more than riding your MTB and upgrading parts? i heard that all fox fork are still manufactured in US...... ;D
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Post by mountguitars on Mar 27, 2008 17:39:32 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... Question to you, Is this for you? there is something wrong here, if you are waiting for someone, why did you go into a relationship? What do you mean by "the one you have been waiting for?" Were you engaged? in a relationship before? Was she working overseas or in a distant land? Had an agreement beforehand? You have to provide me more info to be able to answer your question. wow, parang nasa hot seat, hehehe ;D. seems that enzo is not only a bike techie but a love guru as well, hehehe. ;D
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Post by marcs on Mar 27, 2008 17:56:38 GMT 8
it's never easy. but it really goes back to who you really want to be with. just have to be careful if you really want to be with the person, or you're being swept away with the thought of a new love interest. long relationships are prone to routine and boredom, so a new person is almost always intoxicating. but whatever you decide, you have to be fair to both parties. be honest with them should you decide to do one or the other. the sooner you do it, the better, at least the other party can move on with their life. (as a guy, it's even worse that the girl is just dragging you along coz she doesn't want to hurt you ek ek, pero in her heart there's really no more chemistry. and above all, don't drag the other person along just because you want to keep him/her as backup in case it doens't work out with the other one. the path of true love never did run smooth. ride ka na lang. that'll clear your head
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Post by enzo on Mar 27, 2008 18:14:00 GMT 8
And if ever you decide to end the relationship, make it surgical,
one final and decisive cut.
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Post by Ben Dover on Mar 27, 2008 18:59:25 GMT 8
very well said kuya marcs...very well said.
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Post by kulot_salot on Mar 27, 2008 20:13:49 GMT 8
its always better to be just late than pregnant. LOL ;D diba the right term there is 'delayed'? ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by knobbyist on Mar 27, 2008 21:04:52 GMT 8
it's never easy. but it really goes back to who you really want to be with. just have to be careful if you really want to be with the person, or you're being swept away with the thought of a new love interest. long relationships are prone to routine and boredom, so a new person is almost always intoxicating. man that is sooo true.
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Post by kulot_salot on Mar 27, 2008 21:11:44 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... somewhat OT: my rant naman is... the nasty thread that i started... hehehehe... IS the "kalaros" appeared late na after i got married! too late pa rin...
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Post by Julia on Mar 27, 2008 22:30:54 GMT 8
It's irritating when somebody tells you, they have found the one when in fact, they are into a relationship... cant stick to one! everytime there's somebody new in their lives, they found the one... puro the one...
but they never realized that the one they are looking for maybe is the one who you wake up with and makes love with after a petty figth in the night... they dont look closely lang... they always look into "whats wrong with this person"... not into "this person completes me"...
why cant people be contented... nothing is too late... we just have to see an imperfect partner perfectly... so that at the end of the day, we can say that YES, I've found "THE ONE"...and i married "THE ONE".
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Post by allegra on Mar 27, 2008 23:04:41 GMT 8
What would you do if you're already in a relationship and the one you've been waiting for comes to you and finally ask you to marry him/her? mmmmm.... Your not ready for marriage Marriage is for mature adults If your really ready for marriage, you wouldnt need to ask this question For us kids I'd tell both girls , I'm sorry but I''m lost and I need to think about this....( yeah right! ) Let the bidding war start.... I'm just kidding , I dont have the heart to hurt anyone Oo lang ng oo haha
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Post by Patrick on Mar 27, 2008 23:05:00 GMT 8
Where did that come from Julia? C'mon tell us a story. hehe
Btw here's mine: I always thought you will end up having a greatest love and a person you marry.
I thought about it, I feel now that my greatest love was my wife after all. Because what I though was my greatest love was someone I couldn't get and had some nutty fixation.
She actually told me she loved me (the fixation thingie) even before I got married to my wife hehe, deadma.
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Post by Alphabolt on Mar 27, 2008 23:27:30 GMT 8
And if ever you decide to end the relationship, make it surgical, one final and decisive cut. d Love Surgeon! my idol padi @krissytheb, I feel for you dude. question : do you have kids already? think about it some more brad you know the answer just like power....with kids come great responsibility
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Post by anshwa on Mar 27, 2008 23:39:35 GMT 8
It all boils down to this: only you can answer that, i guess I hope you find the answers you're looking for.
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Post by Ben Dover on Mar 27, 2008 23:42:13 GMT 8
It's irritating when somebody tells you, they have found the one when in fact, they are into a relationship... cant stick to one! everytime there's somebody new in their lives, they found the one... puro the one... but they never realized that the one they are looking for maybe is the one who you wake up with and makes love with after a petty figth in the night... they dont look closely lang... they always look into "whats wrong with this person"... not into "this person completes me"... why cant people be contented... nothing is too late... we just have to see an imperfect partner perfectly... so that at the end of the day, we can say that YES, I've found "THE ONE"...and i married "THE ONE". hard to understand ba? its just like...uhm.. the bikes, julia...just like the bikes... i love this thread! ;D
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Post by Alphabolt on Mar 28, 2008 0:16:18 GMT 8
It's irritating when somebody tells you, they have found the one when in fact, they are into a relationship... cant stick to one! everytime there's somebody new in their lives, they found the one... puro the one... but they never realized that the one they are looking for maybe is the one who you wake up with and makes love with after a petty figth in the night... they dont look closely lang... they always look into "whats wrong with this person"... not into "this person completes me"... why cant people be contented... nothing is too late... we just have to see an imperfect partner perfectly... so that at the end of the day, we can say that YES, I've found "THE ONE"...and i married "THE ONE". hard to understand ba? its just like...uhm.. the bikes, julia...just like the bikes... i love this thread! ;D there s jam in your glasses , Tolits! yup ...I love this thread ..with beer ! This is going to be a Tolits classic: " its just like...uhm.. the bikes, julia...just like the bikes..."
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Post by alitaptap on Mar 28, 2008 0:20:47 GMT 8
"its sad to belong to someone elese, when the right one comes along"
sounds familiar huh? well, personally getting yourself in this situation is really sad. and going out of this situation one has to consider so many things, like weighing the pros and cons.. also i remembered my dad giving me this advice before i got married to bobby... that man should love you more than you do because he will do everything to make you happy, comfortable, lovely and secured. need i say more?
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Post by minotaur on Mar 28, 2008 0:29:12 GMT 8
Hmmm....
Sound like the making of a telenovela.
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