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Post by katipzrider on Jul 6, 2007 14:39:25 GMT 8
it seems this is a big burden to me. ive been dating a lot of girls but always fails. this is a dilemma for me and i am longing for a relationship. does any PMTBikers experience the same???
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Post by kulot_salot on Jul 6, 2007 14:50:19 GMT 8
NO.
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Post by Ben Dover on Jul 6, 2007 15:11:57 GMT 8
fafa, try boys naman...baka you'll be more lucky.  |
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Post by kulot_salot on Jul 6, 2007 15:23:15 GMT 8
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Post by katipzrider on Jul 6, 2007 15:33:33 GMT 8
brad i have that of course !!! hehehehe ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by katipzrider on Jul 6, 2007 15:35:32 GMT 8
fafa, try boys naman...baka you'll be more lucky. YUCK!  i never did that in my whole life! |
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Post by Ben Dover on Jul 6, 2007 16:11:07 GMT 8
fafa, try boys naman...baka you'll be more lucky. YUCK! i never did that in my whole life! hahaha ;D sorry if that's the only advice i could give you. calling the love doctors...this is allegra and gadgets' turf.  |
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Post by marcs on Jul 6, 2007 16:51:28 GMT 8
As Brian Lopes said in his book Mastering Mountain Bike Techniques, "Practice does not make perfect. Practice makes permanent." Got the wrong idea on how to use your brakes? All the practice won't stop that endo. Learn to brake right, then practice it.
Same thing with dating and relationship I think. Mass media and modern concepts have clouded what it means to find the right one, of being in love in all that. There's so much more to it than dating and romance. I would recommend I Kissed Dating Goodbye to take out those wrong concepts that prevent your from pursuing a healthy relationship.
It's a tough book to read, with lots of "controversial" ideas, and honestly I wanted to burn it when my ex gave it to me (to explain why she broke up with me . . . ) ANY the way . . . I read it eventualy and it makes so much sense, and it's a refreshing take on how we should deal with relationships. It doesn't end though with just kissing datinng goodbye. The next book after this is hopeful . . . Say Hello to Courtship.
"While most Christians agree to seek purity and save sex for marriage, few have been given a blueprint for how that should affect their view of dating and love. In I Kissed Dating Goodbye, Joshua Harris exposes the "Seven Habits of Highly Defective Dating" and offers a realistic outline of how to have a biblical vision of marriage. Harris contends that one must begin with a new attitude, viewing love, purity, and singleness from God's perspective rather than thinking that love and romance are to be enjoyed "solely for recreation." In such well-named chapters as "Guarding Your Heart" and "What Matters at Fifty," Harris encourages the reader to look at one's character rather than reveling in infatuation, to regard love as a truly selfless, biblical act rather than a feeling. He refutes the concept that we are victims of "falling in love" (that it is beyond our control), saying that "God wants us to seek guidance from scriptural truth, not feeling. Smart love looks beyond personal desires and the gratification of the moment. It looks at the big picture: serving others and glorifying God." Before you roll your eyes, moaning that this sounds terribly unromantic, know that Harris does a superb job of couching his convictions in the sincere belief that if we are purposeful in our singleness and date with integrity, a fulfilled marriage awaits us--in God's timing. --Jill Heatherly "
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Post by sabretooth on Jul 6, 2007 17:44:17 GMT 8
how about priesthood?
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Post by ronaldarca on Jul 6, 2007 18:56:01 GMT 8
another thing is to take nurture of yourself. cherish it. be greatful of what you have or what you don't.
blame nothing and noone, its all your doing if it ain't right, it will not be right.
be content. start there--inside.
others will see through your Greatest Love--Yourself.
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Post by nhan on Jul 6, 2007 20:13:39 GMT 8
 hehe.... i know i know........ ;D
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Post by sabretooth on Jul 6, 2007 20:16:02 GMT 8
Wait, you must find a partner who can understand your biking needs...or else, say goodbye to your budding biking career this early.
but some really find their calling in the priesthood. :-)
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Post by Alphabolt on Jul 6, 2007 22:04:22 GMT 8
nice one , Vic  ;D Wandie is not a Wendy We need to help Wandie use the "wand" If you dont mind...does single mean ...never had hmmm how do you put it hmmmm? It is quite pertinent you know I kinda blame your barkada if so |
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Post by katipzrider on Jul 6, 2007 22:14:09 GMT 8
im not worth that man, im a grave sinner and they will reject me! ;D ;D |
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Post by rednose on Jul 6, 2007 23:45:38 GMT 8
dude, your time will come. believe me, your time will come. ;D
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Post by allegra on Jul 7, 2007 0:03:50 GMT 8
YUCK! i never did that in my whole life! hahaha ;D sorry if that's the only advice i could give you. calling the love doctors...this is allegra and gadgets' turf. Love doctor??? Sorry sir , I was just trying to be funny sa posts ko . Pampasaya lang yun ng forum Cant even think of something funny to say now Sforts psychology nalang! Maybe we should ask that little dude on my avatar He's 10 years old naka 3 na daw sya girlfriend sabi niya |
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Post by kulot_salot on Jul 7, 2007 8:33:04 GMT 8
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Post by gadgets88 on Jul 7, 2007 9:01:33 GMT 8
calling the love doctors...this is allegra and gadgets' turf. Thank you for the recommendation, Mr. Fly.  <Puts on doctor's spectacles> Now Wandie Baby... Tell us about it. You'll be surprised there are a lot of guys who have the same experiences! After all, we're all bikers! And bikers are... ? P.S. Take your time to tell me about it. I'll charge by the number of words in my reply. Better pray I'm not in a typing mood... Jez kidding! ;D Not gonna charge you too much since you're a newbie in PinoyMTBiker. I like to try Maarat the first time. And the first times are always sooo unforgettable. Sagot mo lang breakfast ko at Aling Tina's. (On you!) to make it even more memorable! Fair enough? I like to dedicate this song to everybody. That includes you. I love you, Paul! GREATEST LOVE OF ALL
written by Michael Masser and Linda Creed
performed by Whitney Houston
I believe that children are our future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be
Everybody's searching for a hero
People need someone to look up to
I never found anyone who fulfilled my need
A lonely place to be and so I learned to depend on me
I decided long ago never to walk in anyone's shadow
If I fail, if I succeed at least I'll live as I believe
No matter what they take from me, they can't take away my dignity
Because the greatest love of all is happening to me
I found the greatest love of all inside of me
The greatest love of all is easy to achieve
Learning to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all
I believe that children are our future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us of how we used to be
I decided long ago never to walk in anyone's shadow
If I fail, if I succeed at least I'll live as I believe
No matter what they take from me, they can't take away my dignity
Because the greatest love of all is happening to me
I found the greatest love of all inside of me
The greatest love of all is easy to achieve
Learning to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all
And if by chance that special place that you've been dreaming of
Leads you to a lonely place, find your strength in love. This is a very popular song. If you want to get an idea of how hard it is for people to love themselves, pose this question, "You know the song "Greatest Love of All" by Whitney Houston. What does she say is the greatest love of all?" Many know the song well, but can't give the correct answer, because they are too uncomfortable to have heard the real message. |
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Post by sabretooth on Jul 7, 2007 11:28:41 GMT 8
there are many kinds of love. maybe you're seeking for a romantic love. there's ...platonic...bestial... but it all boils down to one thing...
hormones.
im not helping i know. ignore me, hehe.
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Post by allegra on Jul 7, 2007 13:58:59 GMT 8
Just be yourself, respect her , be nice , be a gentleman , give her gifts , and compliment her always and If that works , then ikwento mo sakin coz all that cr@p never worked for me haha Now that i'm thinkin about it , maybe yan nga ginagawa mo |
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Post by maxbuwaya on Jul 7, 2007 14:22:59 GMT 8
Dude,
I suggest Always make a move.
This is what I learn from my Cologne.
"Players Cologne"
Make your Move!
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Post by Eikichi on Jul 7, 2007 14:59:24 GMT 8
count me in, after doing some trial and error at the end it will only make you more stronger been there done that brad ;D
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Post by soctrumbiker on Jul 7, 2007 15:34:31 GMT 8
You should be proud kasi we SINGLE MALE ;D are the rare species.. (4:1 for every boys) |
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Post by enzo on Jul 7, 2007 20:26:21 GMT 8
it seems this is a big burden to me. ive been dating a lot of girls but always fails. this is a dilemma for me and i am longing for a relationship. does any PMTBikers experience the same??? I just want the dating, the relationship is the hardest part. Kidding only ;D ;D ;D Seriously, You have to ask yourself what you want in the relationship phase. After that what? Are you in a hurry? dont you want to just have somebody or be in a relationship? Or do you want to get engage then marry eventually? Where are you in your life now and what you want from a partner. You have to provide more info on this brad, coz we dont know want you want and people can suggest other nasty things aside from boys ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by gadgets88 on Jul 9, 2007 13:13:20 GMT 8
it seems this is a big burden to me. ive been dating a lot of girls but always fails. this is a dilemma for me and i am longing for a relationship. does any PMTBikers experience the same??? Everybody experience failures, of course naman. Understand that failure is part of the equation of success, a humbling experience, learn from it. Let's not talk about serious relationships leading to marriage yet. Instead, let's start with having somebody who shares a mutual understading (MU) with you. All relationships have to start somewhere, and usually, they start with both of you are interested in each other, enjoying spending time talking to each other for endless of hours. That kind of relationship. So... Step 1, do you have lots of friends, meet people and date? Since you don't have problem with step 1 let's go to step 2. Step 2, what happened before/during/after the dating games? Think you did, or didn't do, that might be the reason of a date not transforming into an MU relationship? What are the things you think you should work on to get people want to be with you? Perhaps you like to give us a scenario of your last few dates and we'll see if we could give suggestions to improve the outcome. Relax man, you're young and you're going through what we call: the Awkward Stage. Someday, you will overcome this and look back and laugh. Smile, be happy! Don't worry! |
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Post by gadgets88 on Jul 9, 2007 13:36:13 GMT 8
Good luck!
Reason for modifying: Duplicate text
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Post by enzo on Jul 9, 2007 14:17:47 GMT 8
it seems this is a big burden to me. ive been dating a lot of girls but always fails. this is a dilemma for me and i am longing for a relationship. does any PMTBikers experience the same??? Everybody experience failures, of course naman. Understand that failure is part of the equation of success, a humbling experience, learn from it. Let's not talk about serious relationships leading to marriage yet. Instead, let's start with having somebody who shares a mutual understading (MU) with you. All relationships have to start somewhere, and usually, they start with both of you are interested in each other, enjoying spending time talking to each other for endless of hours. That kind of relationship. So... Step 1, do you have lots of friends, meet people and date? Since you don't have problem with step 1 let's go to step 2. Step 2, what happened before/during/after the dating games? Think you did, or didn't do, that might be the reason of a date not transforming into an MU relationship? What are the things you think you should work on to get people want to be with you? Perhaps you like to give us a scenario of your last few dates and we'll see if we could give suggestions to improve the outcome. Relax man, you're young and you're going through what we call: the Awkward Stage. Someday, you will overcome this and look back and laugh. Smile, be happy! Don't worry! Gadgets, you are right, we need more info. Maybe he needs to work on the "getting the ladies interested" with him. Or, just make them laugh. This is my best bet. |
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Post by allegra on Jul 10, 2007 7:15:18 GMT 8
the million buck question is, how do you get the male/female/others you like interested in you?
I say it's the car haha
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Post by xctofi on Jul 10, 2007 8:29:48 GMT 8
Wandie, you said you've been dating a lot of girls but couldnt catch one. those you've dated,did you ask them why they turned you down?whats their reason/s? are you still friends with them after? im not an expert,just saying this as a possibility, but maybe there is also something wrong with you. just a thought. if you want to try out boys i know a place here @ Aurora blvd. name of the place is Dream Boy. mura beer ;D ;D ;D If all else fails,im with MaxB ;D Dude, I suggest Always make a move. This is what I learn from my Cologne. "Players Cologne" Make your Move! |
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Post by kulot_salot on Jul 10, 2007 9:26:39 GMT 8
the million buck question is, how do you get the male/female/others you like interested in you? i wouldnt know...  ;D  |
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i never did that in my whole life! 
hehe.... i know i know........ ;D
