duldog
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Post by duldog on Feb 15, 2006 8:12:04 GMT 8
Well i guess you guys deserve an update ;D done some of your suggestions (like small notes, doing small things for her and the like). yesterday (feb 14), i was able to convince her for a dinner at our local Max's here and i was so glad that she agreed ;D to cut the long story short , inihatid ko sya sa bahay nila using my jeep. ansaya noh ;D pagdating sa bahay nila, i almost had a heart attack 'coz her mom was waiting for her and i was the receiving end of her ourburst! akalain nyo ba naman, she insulted me outright (ayaw daw nla sa kalbo!) and she has good dreams for her daughter and her mom told me, straight in my face, that i am not suited for her daughter! it was a humiliating experience and if she's not a lady i could have given a violent response. ang babae di man lang inawat ang nanay! i was already starting my jeep and she's still firing at me andami sinasabi. nagkita na kami kanina nung babae di man lang nag-apologize. well i may have a crush on her but i don' t deserve to be humiliated like that. btw, i am not yet heartbroken ;D optimistic ako ;D parang bus lang yan may mas maganda pang darating baka aircon pa ;D ;D ;D
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Post by xctofi on Feb 15, 2006 8:21:06 GMT 8
Well i guess you guys deserve an update ;D done some of your suggestions (like small notes, doing small things for her and the like). yesterday (feb 14), i was able to convince her for a dinner at our local Max's here and i was so glad that she agreed ;D to cut the long story short , inihatid ko sya sa bahay nila using my jeep. ansaya noh ;D pagdating sa bahay nila, i almost had a heart attack 'coz her mom was waiting for her and i was the receiving end of her ourburst! akalain nyo ba naman, she insulted me outright (ayaw daw nla sa kalbo!) and she has good dreams for her daughter and her mom told me, straight in my face, that i am not suited for her daughter! it was a humiliating experience and if she's not a lady i could have given a violent response. ang babae di man lang inawat ang nanay! i was already starting my jeep and she's still firing at me andami sinasabi. nagkita na kami kanina nung babae di man lang nag-apologize. well i may have a crush on her but i don' t deserve to be humiliated like that. btw, i am not yet heartbroken ;D optimistic ako ;D parang bus lang yan may mas maganda pang darating baka aircon pa ;D ;D ;D aaaawww! that sucks man. but yeah ur right, lots of fishes in the ocean,no need to get stuck on one.but the incident with her mom really sucks BTW,what time did u bring her home ba? 4AM? hehehe
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Post by marcs on Feb 15, 2006 8:22:47 GMT 8
brad sorry to hear that and good to hear your spirits are still high even after that. what exactly did she mean by having a good future for her daughter? di ba officemates kayo? so did she mean that you aren't rich enough for her daughter (and consequently for her then?). atsaka what's that about ayaw sa kalbo?!! ;D yep somone better will come along when you least expect it. (luma na yang line na yan i know). enjoy the life of blessed singleness for the moment, and God will provide in the right time.
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Post by marcs on Feb 15, 2006 8:24:32 GMT 8
focus on improving yourself for the moment. para pag nahulog sya sa isang a$$$%$, she'll realize what a mistake it was of letting you go!
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Post by warlock^_^ on Feb 15, 2006 8:39:09 GMT 8
ang babae di man lang inawat ang nanay! i was already starting my jeep and she's still firing at me andami sinasabi. nagkita na kami kanina nung babae di man lang nag-apologize. At least you can see your future now if ever you're married to her. Keep the spirit...I like the bus thing hehe. But for my case, my fave line was "kusang dumarating yan". Got lucky, got one of those In-laws you'll love having (sepsep)
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Post by Eikichi on Feb 15, 2006 8:41:51 GMT 8
Maybe if you were driving a Bimmer or an Expe her mother must be very happy seeing the two of you together, sorry to hear about what happen but it seems that many people nowadays are more into the tangible thing rather than whats inside of a person. Just my 2 cents brad
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Post by marcs on Feb 15, 2006 8:48:52 GMT 8
and sad things is sometimes it's the parent that focuses more on the tangible, almost to the point of using their daughter to catch a rich guy that will make them rich as well . . .
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Post by Eikichi on Feb 15, 2006 9:01:43 GMT 8
and sad things is sometimes it's the parent that focuses more on the tangible, almost to the point of using their daughter to catch a rich guy that will make them rich as well . . . Whew exactly remember fix marriages? at first the couples are very happy because they got everything security, wealth etc. but in the end they end up being miserable. Arent you glad that they showed their true colors after seeing you in your silver stainless? marcMaybe they dont want Kalbo guys cause they think that a kalbo guy resembles a con, why do I know these? "BEEN THERE DONE THAT" ;D
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Post by basti on Feb 15, 2006 9:02:24 GMT 8
sorry to hear that brad... that`s the spirit! like xctofi said, marami pa naman dyan... enjoy being single muna.. then ride always your bike! hehehe ;D
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Post by Ben Dover on Feb 15, 2006 9:08:26 GMT 8
hmm...so its clear now...you dont have problem catching girls...as far as i can see you really did well.
will someone please create a new thread on how to deal with future in-laws...it should be in the martial arts or sports central, cars & motorbikes section or something.
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Post by BrusKO on Feb 15, 2006 9:31:38 GMT 8
you should have brought mom a doggie bag. hampas mo jufran sa ulo if she doesnt stop blabbing...
brad, last night was the future for you if you push through with this chick. its not sourgraping, but it true what you said: lotsa fish out there.
BTW, do you know that there are more women than men all over the world? also, i was told by marcs: due to pollution, male producing chromosomes are destroyed. we're a dying breed brad... if only women knew!
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Post by Ben Dover on Feb 15, 2006 9:49:48 GMT 8
hey! you know what...one new year's night a fist was aiming at my face...and it's a fist of my girlfriend's dad for three (3) years...why? because i broke the knob of their tv set...am not even sure if it was indeed me... nothing can be crazier than that...hahaha! ;D believe you me... you will soon have a good laugh remembering it. i still cross paths with her old folks once in a while...i still give them the full respect i showed them the first time they met me...feels better too doing that.
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Post by BrusKO on Feb 15, 2006 9:54:01 GMT 8
girlfriend, now wife?
if so, thats kind of hard to believe... i mean im having brain indigestion just thinking about it. did you pay for the tv? how do you get along now?
man, that must be really really way back. back to when tv's had KNOBS! hahahahaha
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Post by Ben Dover on Feb 15, 2006 10:18:46 GMT 8
di kami nag katuluyan...hehe! super bait mga byenan ko ngayon...her pamangkin asked me to turn the tv to another channel and the knob just fell off...i suspect the kid set me up...for fear of getting a good spanking...malas ko lang. yes it was an old tv...ako nga lang daw nakasira hehehe! ...long story but the incident made me think...i just slowly fade away...that broke her heart real bad and mine too.
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jedi
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Post by jedi on Feb 15, 2006 10:20:01 GMT 8
also, a courtship is successful whether maging kayo o dehins, because courtship is meant to be a phase where the two of you will determine together under God whether you want to spend the rest of your life together. two people sharing a life together is a serious matter, one that can give you a true lifetime partner through thick and thin, or an eternal hell of nagging and tempers flaring. when you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, forever can't start soon enough hehehe. try reading I Kissed Dating Goodbye. this is a good book marcs, i read this before. good advice is all you will learn here. glad i read it. you guys must read it too then after that you might wanna start reading the his next book "boy meets girl" by joshua harris. hope this helps.
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Post by fullspeed on Feb 15, 2006 10:38:58 GMT 8
hey! you know what...one new year's night a fist was aiming at my face...and it's a fist of my girlfriend's dad for three (3) years...why? because i broke the knob of their tv set...am not even sure if it was indeed me... nothing can be crazier than that...hahaha! ;D believe you me... you will soon have a good laugh remembering it. i still cross paths with her old folks once in a while...i still give them the full respect i showed them the first time they met me...feels better too doing that. Duldog and Tolits - hehehe like scenes from pinoy comedy movies no offense idols, not making fun of your experiences ... its just that I can imagine the dialogue and the scenes in my head Duldog - are you sad or relieved with the experience? (I hope its the latter)
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Post by allegra on Feb 15, 2006 12:30:39 GMT 8
also, a courtship is successful whether maging kayo o dehins, because courtship is meant to be a phase where the two of you will determine together under God whether you want to spend the rest of your life together. two people sharing a life together is a serious matter, one that can give you a true lifetime partner through thick and thin, or an eternal hell of nagging and tempers flaring. when you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, forever can't start soon enough hehehe. try reading I Kissed Dating Goodbye. this is a good book marcs, i read this before. good advice is all you will learn here. glad i read it. you guys must read it too then after that you might wanna start reading the his next book "boy meets girl" by joshua harris. hope this helps. I love reading myself ( not about romance though )but , how about ....going out and meet women.....is that a new concept? You'll learn a lot more I think
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Post by marcs on Feb 15, 2006 12:34:19 GMT 8
Doc Allegra,
yep, but it sure helps to at least have some knowledge before hand. siyempre it should all translate to action.
pero ika nga ni Brian Lopes, 'Practice does not make perfect. Practice makes permanent.'
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Post by jedi on Feb 15, 2006 14:08:58 GMT 8
I love reading myself ( not about romance though )but , how about ....going out and meet women.....is that a new concept? You'll learn a lot more I think sir allegra - yes of course you will learn by going out and meeting all kinds of women. me i like both reading books bout romance but not as often. and meeting women is also healthy. coz their are guys born what we call "torpe" and when they are around girls they become speechless! so to get your confidence going make friends i guess is what to do. the rest is history na! ;D peace guys!
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Konan
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Post by Konan on Feb 15, 2006 15:56:51 GMT 8
ang babae di man lang inawat ang nanay! nagkita na kami kanina nung babae di man lang nag-apologize. well i may have a crush on her but i don' t deserve to be humiliated like that. btw, i am not yet heartbroken ;D optimistic ako ;D parang bus lang yan may mas maganda pang darating baka aircon pa ;D ;D ;D Did'nt Stop na her Motormouth Mom, di man lang mag Sorry the next time na nagkita kayo You're chances with her ( I think ) is Slim Drey I hope the Aircon Bus passes by na
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Post by Alphabolt on Feb 16, 2006 0:30:49 GMT 8
I only wish...cool buses and overcast clouds w/o rain during trailrides for you, brad duldog Ya earned your trophy and its not that girl Respect brad
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duldog
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Post by duldog on Feb 16, 2006 11:08:48 GMT 8
well i guess i am relieved to know that they are "matapobre". its just that i haven't fallen enough for the girl for me to start staring at the ceiling and be emotional. sayang ang ganda pa naman nya kaya lang nakakainsulto sila. i am not the touchie-feelie kind of guy, i am always optimistic of the good things just around the corner (sayang ung pera ko na pinangtreat sa kanya ;D) hanap na lang ako ng iba how i greatly wish marami newly hired sa company namin this year para marami choices ;D
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Post by allegra on Feb 16, 2006 12:54:02 GMT 8
So what if she's matapobre , it's what's outside thats important nyahaha
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Post by fullspeed on Feb 16, 2006 16:30:54 GMT 8
So what if she's matapobre , it's what's outside thats important nyahaha Sometimes this can be true .. because good manners can be taught, while ugly face is permanent nyehehehehe (unless you are willing to spend for plastic surgery)
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Post by Ben Dover on Feb 16, 2006 16:54:37 GMT 8
So what if she's matapobre , it's what's outside thats important nyahaha Sometimes this can be true .. because good manners can be taught, while ugly face is permanent nyehehehehe (unless you are willing to spend for plastic surgery) hmm...but you know sometimes no matter how beautiful a lady's face is pag ubod ng askad ang ugali...i really can't find her sexy...the problem is mahirap baguhin ang ugali. for me the attractiveness of a lady depends not soo much on her physical attributes but on how she carries herself...kahit dehins masyado maganda basta medyo malandi panalo ;D
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Post by coolangot ☺ on Feb 16, 2006 18:11:51 GMT 8
Hmmm.... why does her mother told you she don't want "Kalbo"? I think she ( the mother ) has a narrow mind.. good thing you saw this early
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Post by allegra on Feb 16, 2006 21:58:28 GMT 8
Fafa Tolits said : hmm...but you know sometimes no matter how beautiful a lady's face is pag ubod ng askad ang ugali...i really can't find her sexy...the problem is mahirap baguhin ang ugali. %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%% I have a firm belief .....that lust conquers all
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Post by Alphabolt on Feb 17, 2006 1:26:27 GMT 8
Amen to the beauty within Wouldnt hurt if it came in a wonderful package though nyahhhaha...Yung malandi (tolits) and lustful (allegra)..."it" Ethics...yeah right ! I ll teach her [wouldnt hurt also if you had the moolah to pay for cosmetic surgery, eh Cial? ]
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Post by shuzzs on Feb 17, 2006 7:06:02 GMT 8
Duldog,
If you don't mind, how old is the girl? It seems so awkward that parents tend to act that way without a reason.
There can lots of reasons: - The two of you were late... her mom was expecting her to go home early. - Her mom still treats her daughter as still too young to be in a relationship - Her mom is strict and conservative (where's you location brad... seems you're not from MM) - or maybe she is just intimidated by your looks At least you also have to know the reason why her mom acted that way...
As for the girl not apologizing for her mom's actions, maybe I won't blame her since she is accustomed to her mom's blabber. I think you need to know the girl's private or family life as well.
I may have gave you some reasons to hope but the thing here is that you have to know all the facts before you decide.
Good luck brad and nice going.
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Post by Eikichi on Feb 17, 2006 9:33:29 GMT 8
like what an old rap song says "Humanap ka nang pangit ibigin mong tunay kung dehins sige ka puso moy mabibiyak humanap ka nang pangit dehins ka iiyak" ;D (find an ugly guy/gal love him/her if not youll break your heart) LONG LIVE BOY NEXT DOOR GUYS
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