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Post by allegra on Feb 8, 2006 14:41:38 GMT 8
hehehe! i think you're telling him what is easier for ladies...i say hayaan mong magisip...minsan mas maganda ngang maiinis ng konti eh hahaha! oops...marcs d' mango might not like this oh. yeah. that's a difrent school of thought though. hehehe. the kind of strategy that females should be wary of.. hehehe.. aniweis, kanya kanyang style naman yan. I think girls should be more wary of courtship If you see a guy carryng a girls umbrella , nanliligaw pa lang yun.. If you see them again , and the girl is carying the umbrella , ah sinagot na siya At least w/ bad boys, you know what your getting into ;D
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Post by xctofi on Feb 8, 2006 14:44:04 GMT 8
oh. yeah. that's a difrent school of thought though. hehehe. the kind of strategy that females should be wary of.. hehehe.. aniweis, kanya kanyang style naman yan. I think girls should be more wary of courtship If you see a guy carryng a girls umbrella , nanliligaw pa lang yun.. If you see them again , and the girl is carying the umbrella , ah sinagot na siya At least w/ bad boys, you know what your getting into ;D and nowadays i think girls already know whats next if a guy asks them "do you really love me?"
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Post by alien_scream on Feb 8, 2006 14:44:36 GMT 8
oh. yeah. that's a difrent school of thought though. hehehe. the kind of strategy that females should be wary of.. hehehe.. aniweis, kanya kanyang style naman yan. I think girls should be more wary of courtship If you see a guy carryng a girls umbrella , nanliligaw pa lang yun.. If you see them again , and the girl is carying the umbrella , ah sinagot na siya At least w/ bad boys, you know what your getting into ;D i see it more this way!!!! if you see a couple (mag syota) walking together and are really sweet... di pa nakukuha ng lalaki yun!!!! but pag nakuha na!!! nahuhuli ng mag lakad yung babae or di na pinapansin!!!
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Post by feline13 on Feb 8, 2006 14:53:36 GMT 8
oh. yeah. that's a difrent school of thought though. hehehe. the kind of strategy that females should be wary of.. hehehe.. aniweis, kanya kanyang style naman yan. I think girls should be more wary of courtship If you see a guy carryng a girls umbrella , nanliligaw pa lang yun.. If you see them again , and the girl is carying the umbrella , ah sinagot na siya At least w/ bad boys, you know what your getting into ;D yup. same reason why in the courtship stage boys and girls should really do their job of getting to know each other -- if they really are a match or not.. *i'm talking long-term here ha, situations other that LTR does not apply* but then again, everything in life is a risk anyway. yes or no lang yan, and what ever line you chose, go for it! hehehe.
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Post by allegra on Feb 8, 2006 14:56:50 GMT 8
I think girls should be more wary of courtship If you see a guy carryng a girls umbrella , nanliligaw pa lang yun.. If you see them again , and the girl is carying the umbrella , ah sinagot na siya At least w/ bad boys, you know what your getting into ;D and nowadays i think girls already know whats next if a guy asks them "do you really love me?" ahahaha Bakit sa iba baliktad naman " You are special but I think it would better if we remain as friends " and then go for the kill Pero that is dishonesty, wag nyo gagawin yan mga bata!!
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Post by warlock^_^ on Feb 8, 2006 14:57:48 GMT 8
You'll start running cold sweats and counting how much you saved when your long time girlfriend starts asking you this heheheh and nowadays i think girls already know whats next if a guy asks them "do you really love me?"
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Post by Ben Dover on Feb 8, 2006 15:06:40 GMT 8
hehehe! this is no longer courtship...family planning na ito. ;D
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Post by basti on Feb 8, 2006 15:52:32 GMT 8
whew! this discussion has gone a looooong way... ;D i think "fruits" are in...what happened to sir Tolits candy wrapper? hehehe
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Post by Ben Dover on Feb 8, 2006 17:26:24 GMT 8
bast, i guess the "candy wrapper" is now torn and tattered. sabi nga ni john lennon: "I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round I really love to watch them roll No longer riding on the merry go round I just had to let it go" iba na yata laro ngayon...lets hear from the younger people like you
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Post by Eikichi on Feb 8, 2006 17:37:38 GMT 8
Why is that sometimes we can never had that person na mahal na mahal natin, and eventhough your worlds apart from each other that feeling for her doesnt change everytime you think of her its like the 1st time you saw her walking down the school hallways well I guess thats love nyahahahahhaa ;D
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Post by janix on Feb 8, 2006 18:01:20 GMT 8
i remembered..... don't carry the lady's purse.... carry only what you think she's having a hard time carrying..... but a purse?? i don't know. you're being over gentleman and it's already out of place. thats what me and my other friends think.
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Post by coolangot ☺ on Feb 8, 2006 20:45:34 GMT 8
I think girls should be more wary of courtship If you see a guy carryng a girls umbrella , nanliligaw pa lang yun.. If you see them again , and the girl is carying the umbrella , ah sinagot na siya At least w/ bad boys, you know what your getting into ;D I remember one of my professors who told us that if he sees that he will have a long relationship with a girl he never shows anything special, like opening doors or making -"akay", etc. Baka daw Mamihasa ( they might get used to it) and the moment he forgets to do that she might think there's something wrong. He does the opposite to the women who he thinks he will not have a long term relationship.. "para da hanapin sya" ( so they will seek him ) ;D oh yeah and its the same style as one of my Gay Professor din ;D
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Post by basti on Feb 9, 2006 7:55:10 GMT 8
i agree with eikichi...why does the woman you love doesn`t like you??? but those you only consider as friends...like you a lot? well, i still believe in the old ways...courtship, opening doors for a woman, courting her @ home, etc. believe me guys, it still works! ;D especially in the provinces. but i agree also in friendship first like going on a date...to really know that girl and then telling to her your true intentions if you find out that you "click" with each other ...that is courting her...coz you are smitten with her beauty inside and out. but be warned! it may turn out good or bad... well, that`s life. you gotta face the consequences every action you may make... it`s just only me... just sahring my "canned" thoughts and opening to everybody! ;D ;D ;D peace out brothers! make "love" not war and spread out! hehehehe i mean spread love.... we all neeed that...
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Post by marcs on Feb 9, 2006 8:15:06 GMT 8
honestly, those acts of chivalry ek ek, no matter how small, I think does make a good impression. i think we pinoys take it for granted coz we're naturally romantic (naks) haha but whenever I go on business trips overseas and meet up with lady friends, impressed sila even if for us it's nothing.
but it should be second nature really. you should hold the door for any girl. period. di lang coz you're courting her or something.
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Post by basti on Feb 9, 2006 8:48:46 GMT 8
honestly, those acts of chivalry ek ek, no matter how small, I think does make a good impression. i think we pinoys take it for granted coz we're naturally romantic (naks) haha but whenever I go on business trips overseas and meet up with lady friends, impressed sila even if for us it's nothing. but it should be second nature really. you should hold the door for any girl. period. di lang coz you're courting her or something. yup...agree with you brad. treat all the ladies equally...even though you are not courting them. i guess, being gentleman is natural with us Pinoys... and that`s what our neighboring countries admire from us... we treat women with outmost respect.
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Post by bilibidboy on Feb 9, 2006 9:06:15 GMT 8
there you go! sir duldog hope these guys shed the light on you...my take on this is simple lng..be the guy who u really are, as curt cobain said..."come as you are..."
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Post by allegra on Feb 9, 2006 12:40:16 GMT 8
i agree with eikichi...why does the woman you love doesn`t like you??? but those you only consider as friends...like you a lot? well, i still believe in the old ways...courtship, opening doors for a woman, courting her @ home, etc. ************************* fafa Basti , there's been 3 or 4 threads about this already and you still havent learned If something isnt working , di ba dpat you should be quick to adapt
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Post by basti on Feb 9, 2006 13:13:38 GMT 8
i agree with eikichi...why does the woman you love doesn`t like you??? but those you only consider as friends...like you a lot? well, i still believe in the old ways...courtship, opening doors for a woman, courting her @ home, etc. ************************* fafa Basti , there's been 3 or 4 threads about this already and you still havent learned If something isnt working , di ba dpat you should be quick to adapt well i have already learned my lesson Fafa allegra... the hard way. but i still can`t get away from her "shadows"... ;D she considers me now as her male bestfriend now! ;D but nah... i`m just a stupid lover , that`s why... hehehehe ;D seriously, i`m happy now coz of a special girl... ;D now back to regular programming... ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Eikichi on Feb 10, 2006 12:57:03 GMT 8
good old days indeed, like someone to grow old with, in good times and bad times but it always end up the "Seeing her happy is enough to make my day eventhough shes with somebody else" thingy
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Post by bikedaddy on Feb 12, 2006 21:36:39 GMT 8
Courtship is always risky, the odds are against you. In my opinion (read: experience) the chances of failure are always high. Just try to be friendly to everybody then be extra-friendly to her. Be nice to everyone then be extra-nice to her. Surely she will notice that, make her laugh but don't forget to piss her off sometimes then apologize immediately by giving her something...this will give you an excuse to look like you are nanliligaw...but not really, you are just asking for forgiveness, you may give her anything, flowers, chocolates, cellfone...1,000.00 peso load, pero dehins ka nanliligaw promise ;D...humihingi ka lang ng tawad. Sometimes, a woman feels like she's in heaven when a guy is at her mercy, ala dominatrix ba ehehehe. Then, because you are a nice guy, patatawarin ka n'ya, pero ikaw wag mo na syang patatawarin, hwag mo na syang tantanan....make her feel that she is the most special, that she completes you that she had you at hello ;D ....Then she will feel that you are also special, that you are a BF material....That is if you are lucky ;D ;D ;D
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Post by janix on Feb 12, 2006 21:40:47 GMT 8
and if your not? ehehehe..... Courtship is always risky, the odds are against you. In my opinion (read: experience) the chances of failure are always high. Just try to be friendly to everybody then be extra-friendly to her. Be nice to everyone then be extra-nice to her. Surely she will notice that, make her laugh but don't forget to piss her off sometimes then apologize immediately by giving her something...this will give you an excuse to look like you are nanliligaw...but not really, you are just asking for forgiveness, you may give her anything, flowers, chocolates, cellfone...1,000.00 peso load, pero dehins ka nanliligaw promise ;D...humihingi ka lang ng tawad. Sometimes, a woman feels like she's in heaven when a guy is at her mercy, ala dominatrix ba ehehehe. Then, because you are a nice guy, patatawarin ka n'ya, pero ikaw wag mo na syang patatawarin, hwag mo na syang tantanan....make her feel that she is the most special, that she completes you that she had you at hello ;D ....Then she will feel that you are also special, that you are a BF material....That is if you are lucky ;D ;D ;D
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Post by qt_kat on Feb 12, 2006 21:59:14 GMT 8
Courtship is always risky, the odds are against you. In my opinion (read: experience) the chances of failure are always high. Just try to be friendly to everybody then be extra-friendly to her. Be nice to everyone then be extra-nice to her. Surely she will notice that, make her laugh but don't forget to piss her off sometimes then apologize immediately by giving her something...this will give you an excuse to look like you are nanliligaw...but not really, you are just asking for forgiveness, you may give her anything, flowers, chocolates, cellfone...1,000.00 peso load, pero dehins ka nanliligaw promise ;D...humihingi ka lang ng tawad. Sometimes, a woman feels like she's in heaven when a guy is at her mercy, ala dominatrix ba ehehehe. Then, because you are a nice guy, patatawarin ka n'ya, pero ikaw wag mo na syang patatawarin, hwag mo na syang tantanan....make her feel that she is the most special, that she completes you that she had you at hello ;D ....Then she will feel that you are also special, that you are a BF material....That is if you are lucky ;D ;D ;D parang deja vu ;D I could guarantee this would work. Thats what bikedaddy used on me. He pissed me off first then tried to win my heart. Actually, he was already my crush, kaya di ko na siya pinahirapan. ;D I guess its also fate that brought us together.(long story) We're really meant for each other.
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Post by Poseur on Feb 13, 2006 18:07:27 GMT 8
foolish games people play.
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Post by rob on Feb 13, 2006 18:32:37 GMT 8
wow everybody is really in the mood. This highly commercialized event that's comming up. hmmm what do they call it again. T'Has something to do with a saint (no wise"cranks" please)? hehe
hmmm...
What the Heck, Happy Valentine's Everyone!
There I said it. hehe
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Post by allegra on Feb 13, 2006 20:57:15 GMT 8
foolish games people play. It's entirely the girls fault They think differently = chick logic Never ask a girls opinion on what works They have a completely different view of reality
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Post by rob on Feb 13, 2006 22:47:16 GMT 8
Yup allegra completely true. women are more emotional (read loves to talk), while men are physical (read loves to carress).
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Post by allegra on Feb 13, 2006 23:14:29 GMT 8
In short, girls think w/ their hearts while guys use their heads ( unfortunately , more often the smaller one )
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Post by rob on Feb 13, 2006 23:19:40 GMT 8
no that's not what I meant man. well maybe theoretically yeah. but, It's just d' basic differences n' showing affection.
I guess that's why guys like machines and girls like phones. catch my drift? hehe
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Post by marcs on Feb 14, 2006 7:47:03 GMT 8
from my extensive research and after eating tons and tons of mangga, here is how I see it - women talk to bond and to express their feelings, not to find a solution. this is why they may talk more because they want to bring out all the minutest details - men, on the other hand, are problem solvers. the male brain thinks only of finding a solution and therefore the common male species only wants to hear information that will lead to an action/answer.
- women's brains are wired like a web. ergo, multi-tasking is something women have a biological advantage on. they can talk on the phone, do their nails, and watch TV at the same time. Their discussions may also lead to jump from one topic to another - the male species, on the other hand, thinks in a linear fashion. he prefers to focus on one topic at a time and will be absorbed in that particular task (and in fact will have a hard time following Female's discussion if she jumps from one topic to another)
lovingly yours, marcs da mango
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Post by whoopi on Feb 14, 2006 10:36:11 GMT 8
reminds me of jack nicholson in AS GOOD AS IT GETS, replying to the question "how do you think like a woman?" and he says he thinks of a man and he takes away reason and accountability. ;D
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