sire_andre
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Post by sire_andre on Apr 1, 2008 15:07:52 GMT 8
good day to all...
i started this thread because a friend of mine shared me her story about something that she can't understand whether she regrets it or its just a simple added inspiration to her life...
she's 29 years old and in a relation that's been going for 10 years... one day when a big down pour in their relationship came, she was looking for comfort...she asked me if i can give her company in a local bar in timog because she got no one to talk to, and i said "sure".
she confessed about her cheating on her guy, she told me that she met her "hunk" in a local coffee shop in ortigas business district, and the line that she was swept off her feet was "how you doin'?"
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 15:30:39 GMT 8
She's a pro brad, she handled things well and been doing it for the length of time...
Who knows how many men she is seeing aside from her steady "maintenance" guy.
Just like a woman, i wouldnt be attracted to that easy with such lines. Swept off my feet with simple words? She must have substance before I will jump in.
I can play her game but she needs to work harder than that.
My two cents.
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Post by kulot_salot on Apr 1, 2008 15:52:30 GMT 8
OO! Da Man is not that easy!!! @andre: i'm just guessing here... but from my POV, she's a 'player', dude. sorry for the stereotyping...
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ghorio
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Post by ghorio on Apr 1, 2008 16:00:13 GMT 8
how about changing the title, "How did she made you... her number two? ;D
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 16:04:24 GMT 8
how about changing the title, "How did she made you... her number two? ;D ;D ;D ;D I still cant relate to this. Rule number 1: Dont mess around with somebody's girl. Hundreds of single, unattached women out there.
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Post by kulot_salot on Apr 1, 2008 16:21:16 GMT 8
how about changing the title, "How did she made you... her number two? ;D ;D ;D ;D I still cant relate to this. Rule number 1: Dont mess around with somebody's girl. Hundreds of single, unattached women out there. tama! look for singles.... single-mom. ;D <enzo number 1 fan here> ;D
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Post by Lui-G on Apr 1, 2008 16:26:14 GMT 8
look for singles.... single-mom. ;D Now, that's more like it!
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 16:31:27 GMT 8
;D ;D ;D I still cant relate to this. Rule number 1: Dont mess around with somebody's girl. Hundreds of single, unattached women out there. tama! look for singles.... single-mom. ;D <enzo number 1 fan here> ;D Yeah baby Jaymz! I hope you know how to tell if she had a child/children.
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leflea
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Post by leflea on Apr 1, 2008 17:26:35 GMT 8
@sire_andre, must be some hunk the guy was
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Post by ice on Apr 1, 2008 17:32:08 GMT 8
"how you doin'?" does this guy happen to be italian, trying to make it in hollwood, has several sisters, and has friends named chandler, ross, monica, rachel and phoebie? and btw, the coffee shop... is it called central perk? ;D curahee!
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Julia
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Post by Julia on Apr 1, 2008 22:46:15 GMT 8
well.... don't be too judgmental. just because she dates another guy, doesnt mean its all her fault... maybe her guy has a problem also... neglected? taken for granted, perhaps? That's what i'm talking about... women needs time and respect... maybe she's lonely... her guy won't give her the treatment she deserves. yun nga lang, she jumped at the guy too soon without thinking... dehins naman nya kilala... but she is lonely e... on the other hand, baligtarin mo man, she's still wrong... cheating is not the answer... lalo na if your partner does'nt wrong you... if she was my friend, she won't have my consent...karma comes around... when a girl cheats, she's a player... when a man cheats, ego booster kasi daming chics...
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Julia
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Post by Julia on Apr 1, 2008 22:50:29 GMT 8
how about changing the title, "How did she made you... her number two? ;D ;D ;D ;D I still cant relate to this. Rule number 1: Dont mess around with somebody's girl. Hundreds of single, unattached women out there. lot's of dorkies out there waiting for their prey... if the girl is gullible enough, GOTCHA! i hope you all take good care of your GF and wives... it hurts when this happens to you...
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Jenner
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Post by Jenner on Apr 1, 2008 22:53:46 GMT 8
when a girl cheats, she's a player... when a man cheats, ego booster kasi daming chics... Nice goin' Julia ;D ;D This will be a good thread ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Dragunov on Apr 1, 2008 22:58:17 GMT 8
when a girl cheats, she's a player... when a man cheats, ego booster kasi daming chics... Nice goin' Julia ;D ;D This will be a good thread ;D ;D ;D enzo! take note ! ;D
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 23:11:59 GMT 8
Nice goin' Julia ;D ;D This will be a good thread ;D ;D ;D enzo! take note ! ;D Let me remind all of you that I dont date women...Period. I dont court women....Period. I dont flirt with women....period. I dont need any ego booster,, Im too old for that. And i will not suggest to people in a relationship to go for another one.
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Julia
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Post by Julia on Apr 1, 2008 23:20:22 GMT 8
@ enzo pakilala kita kay ericson... (trans: with your stand, i want you to meet my husband.) hahaha...
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 23:29:15 GMT 8
well.... don't be too judgmental. just because she dates another guy, doesnt mean its all her fault... maybe her guy has a problem also... neglected? taken for granted, perhaps? That's what i'm talking about... women needs time and respect... maybe she's lonely... her guy won't give her the treatment she deserves. yun nga lang, she jumped at the guy too soon without thinking... dehins naman nya kilala... but she is lonely e... on the other hand, baligtarin mo man, she's still wrong... cheating is not the answer... lalo na if your partner does'nt wrong you... if she was my friend, she won't have my consent...karma comes around... when a girl cheats, she's a player... when a man cheats, ego booster kasi daming chics... Sire_andre's line is a bit confusing, I dunno know when was that "down" time she is talking about Was it before the meeting with the hunk or was it during the timog time? It's easy to get out of the "10 years" relationship and move on to another one than cheating and be inspired by a one night stand. 10 years!!! nagpakasal na sana sila at di na nagpaligoy ligoy pa. With that length of time, she knew if this guy will marry her, how to please her or if she really needed a hunk or a dork. "Cant understand whether she regrets it or it's just a simple added inspiration to her life"
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Post by Dragunov on Apr 1, 2008 23:31:58 GMT 8
Let me remind all of you that I dont date women...Period. I dont court women....Period. I dont flirt with women....period. I dont need any ego booster,, Im too old for that. And i will not suggest to people in a relationship to go for another one. peace hehe ;D
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 23:34:36 GMT 8
@ enzo pakilala kita kay ericson... (trans: with your stand, i want you to meet my husband.) hahaha... By all means Julia I may look like a killer in this forum but im a good boy. And alot of ladies will attest to that. ;D ;D In between the lines,,, I dont court women....Period. (Akong nililigawan= Im a nerd ;D) I dont flirt with women....Period. (Reverse psychology!) I dont need an ego booster, im too old for that....Period. (Sign on my son's shirt says: You should see my Dad!) And I will not suggest...Period. (Buhol buhol na sinulid=It's hard to untangle mixed up thread ;D) At this point in my time! I should at least help others to stay the line and be good.
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Jenner
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Post by Jenner on Apr 1, 2008 23:36:53 GMT 8
Whats with Enzo anyway? hehehehe, so your telling us (just a situational example)
How will your #1 and #2 will meet? ;D
will the #1 guy will shake hands with da Man? or
will he yell at you and say "at least you have a taste"
just lightenin' up a bit here... tadum tadum tadum jajajan
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Post by enzo on Apr 1, 2008 23:43:26 GMT 8
Whats with Enzo anyway? hehehehe, so your telling us (just a situational example) How will your #1 and #2 will meet? ;D will the #1 guy will shake hands with da Man? or will he yell at you and say "at least you have a taste" just lightenin' up a bit here... tadum tadum tadum jajajan Cant relate to this either ;D ;D
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Post by kulot_salot on Apr 2, 2008 8:50:00 GMT 8
Hhhmmm... With that in mind... I’m posting a rant here... This is an OT.Excuses to all, mostly to the thread starter... it is not my intention to hijack your thread. This thing in my mind made me lose sleep… this does not, in any manner, related to the started topic. This is something a propos over the weekend. My apologies to my good friend, you were caught blindsided here (I was too).
Guys, I am not expecting any replies or comments... you don't need to.To YOU... YOU know who YOU are:
In the first place, if YOU are that deceitful to enter in a 'second' relationship and sacrifice your marriage and your family, why the need to hide it NOW?
The harm was done.
You have no more marriage or family to protect.
You did it to yourself.
You are now ‘unshackled.’
Why the need to ask us to rubout our ‘line’?
(We went to great extents of asking this big favor just to cover your ass here!)
So that your ‘so-called’ friends could stop from pestering you?
For you to have peace of mind?
Do you have anything more to lose?
I think there’s no more.
If you could just viewed the ‘line’ before believing your ‘so-called’ friends and jumping into conclusion…
You should have seen it for yourself that there were no wicked intent in our part in sharing that weekend day out.
I’m upset that you believed your ‘so-called’ friends rather than me.
Humor me: I’m your friend… better yet, WAS your friend… tell me, what’s the real deal with your rapport?
Don’t worry. There will be no next time that we would invite you again. Never expect any.
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DarKman
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Post by DarKman on Apr 2, 2008 8:59:51 GMT 8
Hhhmmm... With that in mind... I’m posting a rant here... This is an OT.Excuses to all, mostly to the thread starter... it is not my intention to hijack your thread. This thing in my mind made me lose sleep… this does not, in any manner, related to the started topic. This is something a propos over the weekend. My apologies to my good friend, you were caught blindsided here (I was too).
Guys, I am not expecting any replies or comments... you don't need to.To YOU... YOU know who YOU are:
In the first place, if YOU are that deceitful to enter in a 'second' relationship and sacrifice your marriage and your family, why the need to hide it NOW?
The harm was done.
You have no more marriage or family to protect.
You did it to yourself.
You are now ‘unshackled.’
Why the need to ask us to rubout our ‘line’?
(We went to great extents of asking this big favor just to cover your ass here!)
So that your ‘so-called’ friends could stop from pestering you?
For you to have peace of mind?
Do you have anything more to lose?
I think there’s no more.
If you could just viewed the ‘line’ before believing your ‘so-called’ friends and jumping into conclusion…
You should have seen it for yourself that there were no wicked intent in our part in sharing that weekend day out.
I’m upset that you believed your ‘so-called’ friends rather than me.
Humor me: I’m your friend… better yet, WAS your friend… tell me, what’s the real deal with your rapport?
Don’t worry. There will be no next time that we would invite you again. Never expect any.What the hell? This post woke me up though I don't have a clue who you're talking to or why jaymz...hahaha! cheers!
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Post by Ben Dover on Apr 2, 2008 10:58:50 GMT 8
whoa!! very intriguing. yeah, if i only knew then how complicated married life is, nagpari na talaga ako.
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Post by Freeman on Apr 2, 2008 11:12:00 GMT 8
Hhhmmm... With that in mind... I’m posting a rant here... This is an OT.Excuses to all, mostly to the thread starter... it is not my intention to hijack your thread. This thing in my mind made me lose sleep… this does not, in any manner, related to the started topic. This is something a propos over the weekend. My apologies to my good friend, you were caught blindsided here (I was too).
Guys, I am not expecting any replies or comments... you don't need to.To YOU... YOU know who YOU are:
In the first place, if YOU are that deceitful to enter in a 'second' relationship and sacrifice your marriage and your family, why the need to hide it NOW?
The harm was done.
You have no more marriage or family to protect.
You did it to yourself.
You are now ‘unshackled.’
Why the need to ask us to rubout our ‘line’?
(We went to great extents of asking this big favor just to cover your ass here!)
So that your ‘so-called’ friends could stop from pestering you?
For you to have peace of mind?
Do you have anything more to lose?
I think there’s no more.
If you could just viewed the ‘line’ before believing your ‘so-called’ friends and jumping into conclusion…
You should have seen it for yourself that there were no wicked intent in our part in sharing that weekend day out.
I’m upset that you believed your ‘so-called’ friends rather than me.
Humor me: I’m your friend… better yet, WAS your friend… tell me, what’s the real deal with your rapport?
Don’t worry. There will be no next time that we would invite you again. Never expect any.talking to yourself again jaymz??? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by kulot_salot on Apr 2, 2008 11:17:28 GMT 8
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sire_andre
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Post by sire_andre on Apr 2, 2008 11:59:43 GMT 8
she's one good friend of mine and i think he's not a "playa" i don't really need to understand that much of her but one thing i understand is her hunk really fills in the gaps of her boyfriend.
@ ice ...yeah...that sweep off line comes from that series...it works you know
@ enzo...sir, i think it's not the length of the relationship is the basis for getting married..right? her being "down" is because of lotsa factors, relationship,home,office ....i bet every relationship has it down side and it's just up to them (the girl and boy) how to make things work.....i haven't asked if they're active in some other things....
@ julia ..."when a girl cheats, she's a player... when a man cheats, ego booster kasi daming chics..." i really don't see it this way, when a man cheats he done something wrong, and when a woman cheats she done something wrong too...were all created equal...
maybe it's just one of the "can be telenovela stuff" that ordinary people suffers....
guys i'm all outta resources on what will i say....any other things?...or better yet examples even?
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Post by leflea on Apr 2, 2008 12:32:37 GMT 8
when a girl cheats, she's a player... when a man cheats, ego booster kasi daming chics... Nice goin' Julia ;D ;D This will be a good thread ;D ;D ;D i second that! becoming a goood thread.... a question that most people are afraid to ask but are eager to find an answer to...
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leflea
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Post by leflea on Apr 2, 2008 12:48:58 GMT 8
let's make this thread educational.
i'm definitely sure that not all people who has number two's are just playing around. well many are plain players but some could have deep reasons that warrant understanding. we are human beings, we have needs and wants and life is not always perfect for some, if not most, of us. maybe we should hear their story first before trying to judging them.
so if you have a story to tell, or a story of a friend...
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Post by pazigrider on Apr 2, 2008 13:19:45 GMT 8
guys - i like reading this tread as it's very informative - just in case ;D ;D ;D - you know for future use ;D sorry for now as i don't have any stories to tell ;D but watch out - perhaps after 5 years i might have something ;D no really - i think i'm just too old for this ;D just keep on posting anyway cheers
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