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Post by kulot_salot on Oct 26, 2007 17:18:13 GMT 8
warning!!! PG/parental guidance/patnubay ng magulang kailangan
tell me guys... or dudettes... ;D what's with married guys that single women find irresistible or intriguing? when i was a bachelor then, it was hard (but not that hard for me... see single since birth thread ;D ) to hook-up with ladies when they find out that you're not engaged or married... they (ladies) will always make it hard for single guys to talk to them, hang out with them, get inside their pants, blah-blah-blah-blah-blah-blah, etc., etc., etc., etc.... now, when they see you wearing a wedding ring or got to know that you're OBVIOUSLY already reserved or married, from my POV, they will try to make you to notice them more... giving obviously more than enough attention, unrelenting texts, like brushing your butt with their hands, a done-purposely grope, an erotic stare, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!!!! it's not that i'm thinking bad about their friendliness.... you know what i'm talking about here... yeah, i know what you guys are thinking.... and yes, i'm experiencing it now.... heheheheheh..... ;D ;D ;D ;D to all those ladies out there: ASAR KAYO!!! where were you when i was still single!?!?!?!?!? [/color] so, what's with married guys that single women find irresistible or intriguing?
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 26, 2007 17:40:55 GMT 8
ewan ko sa inyo ha! but i never actually liked married men...ahahay!
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Post by yukon on Oct 26, 2007 21:51:52 GMT 8
oh jaymz, i know what you're saying. oh boy my lips are sealed!!! how bout married men falling in love with .....
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Post by enzo on Oct 26, 2007 22:30:22 GMT 8
Professional fee required. I charged by the hour. Cant say trade secrets and wont start va trend among our group. One reason is, men are like a fine wine, the more they age the sweeter they become. Second is the more committed the men the more challenging catch. Women are born achievers lot. Enough said,I just gained back my karma +, from 24 down to -22. Now it's +7. Notes above are based on observance only, not personal experience
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Post by jr on Oct 26, 2007 22:41:41 GMT 8
Sorry ladies but the thread is true . Lots of temptation out there. But hold on those hormones or you may end up in trouble ;D.
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Post by g.b.b on Oct 27, 2007 0:33:28 GMT 8
so...... i should not wear those rings after my civil wedding........
got your point jaymz......
lets ride prehistoric tomorrow..... stop replying.. stop excuses
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Post by kulot_salot on Oct 27, 2007 10:17:17 GMT 8
keep the replies coming guys!!! heheheh.... we (cats) also need inputs from you ladies out there.... ;D ;D ;D so...... i should not wear those rings after my civil wedding........ got your point jaymz...... @bri: kaw pa... i tell you man! gggrrrr!!!! ;D ;D lets ride prehistoric tomorrow..... stop replying.. stop excuses oh, STFU. race you i will... get ready to eat dust... ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by yukon on Oct 27, 2007 10:52:37 GMT 8
now enzo...your up 8. ;D i think enzo has a point there and heed jrs. advise keep those hormones...they spell trouble brad.
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Post by shuzzs on Oct 27, 2007 11:01:12 GMT 8
From my point of view, it's not the ring nor the married status that attracts women (single or married), it's actually you.
I believe having a girlfriend or a wife makes you more confident of yourself. It is this trait that girls like from men... it's like 'marunong kang magdala' or basically just being 'you'. Another thing, being snobbish to (some) girls also makes them run at you since some of them are challenged when they are being neglected. ;D
Again... just my point of view.
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Post by sdny on Oct 27, 2007 11:48:12 GMT 8
married man minus a wedding ring! will siguro secret! my opinion 500 pesos per session as par as this topic is concern! that's why alot of women there are after the married man why? secret!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! be a married man first-so that you'll know that secrets. oy playing safe hahahaha!!!!!
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Post by g.b.b on Oct 27, 2007 12:40:43 GMT 8
hmmm.... mine is the other way around.... been hooked with married woman..... twice in one year..... now.... im a one woman man (but many bikes & trail rides) ehehehe
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Post by kulot_salot on Oct 27, 2007 13:04:08 GMT 8
and you call yourself goodboy....
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Post by xctofi on Oct 27, 2007 13:08:35 GMT 8
cant wait for more replies about the topic. i still cant relate at this point e.
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Post by enzo on Oct 27, 2007 13:51:55 GMT 8
now enzo...your up 8. ;D i think enzo has a point there and heed jrs. advise keep those hormones...they spell trouble brad. Are you implying that it's okay to lose or go negative again? I thought I lost the ability to recognize a pick-up line before when the truth is, I was blocking myself, giving it a second thought.(Is she picking me up? why is she saying those words to me?) I guess I was maturing in a positive way. Till it came to the point when the lady will say " You're making it too hard for me I may have to kidnap you" Shuzzs, You are partly right about it's you not the ring thing. But ladies are attracted to men who are successful, matured, confident and secured. To be able to reach this point, there is one major factor to consider,,,,,Marriage. Who will not be complete once youre married? I mean getting into it is a serious business, after all, youre going to spend your whole life and create life or lives with that person. There are so many things I want to say like the right moves, the right touches etc, you know what I mean but I feel evevrybody here knows that or doesnt want to accept that they knew it all. Kulot is aware of it, in his subconsious mind he knew it so well but refused to accept that he got it or doesnt want to use it or maybe he's just like me pretending he doesnt have it. ;D. I dont know what's the right word to use coz I dont know him that much but the fact that he asked the questions shows he's got second thoughts which only he can answer. Or maybe use it to his advantage, or maybe go to the next level . As I said I dont know him well. I will assume that he is a very good person coz he raised the question for all viewpoints. It's a very hard situation.
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Post by whoopi on Oct 27, 2007 15:43:43 GMT 8
ehem, ENZO i hope it wasn't me who said those words to you; i once referred to kidnapping as a joke however, if i remember MAMATI's kwentos... ;D seriously, i think some girls like the sense of tragedy. "oh he's a man i can never have. i'll take all the sweet stolen moments." ba't kasi kayo nagpakasal ;D really JAYMZ, you get groped?! iba na talaga panahon ngayon.... ;D
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Post by trance03 on Oct 27, 2007 16:21:06 GMT 8
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Post by enzo on Oct 27, 2007 17:16:56 GMT 8
ehem, ENZO i hope it wasn't me who said those words to you; i once referred to kidnapping as a joke however, if i remember MAMATI's kwentos... ;D seriously, i think some girls like the sense of tragedy. "oh he's a man i can never have. i'll take all the sweet stolen moments." ba't kasi kayo nagpakasal ;D really JAYMZ, you get groped?! iba na talaga panahon ngayon.... ;D Whoopi, Dont worry sweetie!! (ayan kaya napapagkamalan dahil sa mga flowery words) Dont believe Mamati's kwento, secrets I want her to keep was about my job not the girls. You know women, when they see something, it's something else. Somebody caught a Dilis(small fish) the next day it was a whale already. who would be attracted to a greasy mechanic wearing shorts with lots of scars all over his body and that perpetual tan and blemishes? Thinning and greying hair. Body ill proportioned you cannot tell which sports Im into, gut spilling, chests looks like Im an a substance addict. Who would? You are a dear friend to me as all members of this forum. That's another rule I apply, I never get involved with anyone within a group or association. Hell I've never got myself involved with anybody ;D Sorry for using it but the motive is different from your quote ;D I was so naive in saying it thinking there's no connection between the two. Anyways, You are always my sis from Bulacan Prolly too aggressive for Jaymz that's why he's questioning the advances?
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Post by g.b.b on Oct 27, 2007 17:35:14 GMT 8
and you call yourself goodboy.... my former partners said it (oh, bri.... you're so good!!!) that's why im goodboybrionne.....
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Oct 27, 2007 20:38:06 GMT 8
and you call yourself goodboy.... my former partners said it (oh, bri.... you're so good!!!) that's why im goodboybrionne..... Hahahaha! Got ya! ;D As for the question my answer is: some women always want what they should not have
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Post by whoopi on Oct 30, 2007 9:53:06 GMT 8
enzo: i dig ya brother @erectus: the smiths once crooned, "i want the one i can't have, and it's driving me mad, it's all over all over my face", guys fall for that too
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 30, 2007 11:45:28 GMT 8
but honestly men, you mean you didn't get this much attention when you were still single? dang! jaymz, you ought to thank your wife!
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Post by fattire on Oct 30, 2007 12:10:06 GMT 8
and you call yourself goodboy.... my former partners said it (oh, bri.... you're so good!!!) that's why im goodboybrionne..... anyabang nito ah, GUARD! tofi is feigning he can't relate when we all know it's his territory. ako, i truly can't relate, i'll die not having any of this thing that jaymz is saying. but i do agree with shuzzs, about the part where we are confident already when married. nga pala, i'll not have any of what jaymz is going through because i'm too spoiled by my wife. why bother with anyone else? kahit pa si marimar yan and i'm really having a gander at that pretty lass. the one thing that bothers me though is why do you allow any of this, kaagaw pa sa piyesa yan!
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Post by xctofi on Oct 31, 2007 14:40:57 GMT 8
tofi is feigning he can't relate when we all know it's his territory. ako, i truly can't relate, i'll die not having any of this thing that jaymz is saying. no Owen, its not really my territory. im torpe nga e. pramis here, i asked someone i know about it and here's what he said: Yes, they do,it seems that to some women, the ones who appear to be faithful are very attractive, several reasons. First, they seem much more trustworthy because they haven't been straying (that we know of). Secondly, it's a taboo. they say its Exciting, like seducing a priest. Thirdly, conquest and accomplishment. We want what we can't have. A woman can feel bad about it, but inside there is some part which feeds the ego if you're good enough to pull a married man away from his vows to his wife he says that before he gets in to a relationship with another woman, he already lays all the cards down and tells the woman that its all he can offer. some say no, most say yes. its chow time. ;D ;D ;D if the woman is attracted to the guy din its a lot easier and the woman gives in to the "relationship". he says its like "pag sa office kayo". some just becomes bootie calls. maybe it has something to do with men being outnumbered by women too. and women being more liberated specially the younger ones. i dont know...
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 31, 2007 15:16:16 GMT 8
cut it guys...i think it's the natural process of getting old...old horses looking for fresher and greener grass...now you're taking notice of things you used to ignore LOL! ;D
well, actually i'm curious too...any middle age guy here who can say that he's more attractive now to women than he was 10 years ago?..of course aside from jaymz here who has pubic hair on his scalp.. hehe!
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Post by Lui-G on Oct 31, 2007 16:00:37 GMT 8
I believe it's the "big" responsibility behind that ring that these women, be it single, married, separated or widowed find in us married men both very appealing and intriguing.
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Post by allegra on Nov 1, 2007 1:59:57 GMT 8
Stacey's Dad
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Post by kulot_salot on Nov 1, 2007 12:43:08 GMT 8
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Post by xctofi on Nov 1, 2007 12:59:33 GMT 8
additional info pala from my friend.
he says that some of the women he dated or had relationships with, at the beginning of the relationship is ok with the set up but eventually after a few months they become more demanding, asking for more time which might eventually lead to them making "buko" the relationship to the man's wife so she can have him (the guy) choose between them (the mistress or the wife.)
he ends his relationship na before it gets to that point. as soon as the other woman asks/demands for more than what he can offer,he ends it na daw slowly para wala ng gulo.
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Post by whoopi on Nov 1, 2007 16:50:39 GMT 8
Etiquette for Mistresses by Julie Yap Daza, very interesting read
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Post by fullspeed on Nov 1, 2007 18:31:26 GMT 8
me I became shy when I got married.. or maybe Im just scared of black eye and ear pinching but im not under ok? just dont like trouble
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