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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 8, 2005 16:50:47 GMT 8
wala bang susunod na kanta, joe!!!!! Hehe, "Di ko kayang tanggapin" ;D WARNING: This song is not suitable during downhill rides, baka maitaas mo kamay like April Boy hehehehe LOLz ;D |
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Post by raven on Aug 8, 2005 16:59:05 GMT 8
hey...joseph...uwi kana....lets ride nalang..para makalimutan mo na yan........collect some good old bike...take it from me.....i'm doing it right now........
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Post by marcs on Aug 8, 2005 17:00:15 GMT 8
I think it takes two to tango
Love is supposed to be an extension of oneself (which is why the attraction, your borders expand to include the other person, and for that brief moment, you feel like one with the universe as your personal limitations are shattered)
Love is yet the driving force and at the same time the result of working at it together (love at first sight moved you to buy that bike and spend $$$$ on it, yet it is only when you ride her on the trails, spend time with her, tune her, buy her new parts, does love blossom even further between the two of you and a certain bond forms, essentially becoming one with the bike . . . ahem, anyway, back to love ;D
Love is defined by actions, moments, and an extreme urge to get to know the person, and let her know you in return.
Without these components, I think we end up putting the object of our affection in a pedestal. We weave our hopes and dreams of a perfect relationship, we expand all the good qualities and believe that somehow he or she is the perfect one.
At any rate, these are just my ramblings and they may make sense to you or not. I don;t know the lady of your affection and don't know what your status is with her.
If you're Christian, I'd recommend a book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. Gives you a sharper perspective on love, relationships, all being centered on God. But don't stop there. About letting go of our false notions on love and relationships.
But don;t stop there.
Read on to Boy Meets Girl and change your perspective, regain hope that somewhere out there, God has intended for you to meet someone you will cherish, care for, encourage to grow, and consequently encourage you to be a better man.
Again, tt takes two to tango. A ride and his bike ;D
Source: Philo 101, The Road Less Travelled, Boy Meets Girl, I Kissed Dating Goodbye
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Post by dirtrat on Aug 8, 2005 17:02:43 GMT 8
Sir raven is right san mig lite then listen sa song ni bob marley " NO!Woman NO! CRY"
O.T. sir fullspeed kaw ba talga si joe??
very well said
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Post by cheenky on Aug 8, 2005 17:07:11 GMT 8
Nah! its okey brad, just posted the stalking thing hoping to lighten you up since that was the topic this morning in one of the famous radio stns here. Sorry if it hit a nerve on your part. uy, i was also listening to chico and delamar while driving myself to work this morning. cracks me up, really  |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 8, 2005 17:20:22 GMT 8
I think it takes two to tango Love is supposed to be an extension of oneself (which is why the attraction, your borders expand to include the other person, and for that brief moment, you feel like one with the universe as your personal limitations are shattered) Love is yet the driving force and at the same time the result of working at it together (love at first sight moved you to buy that bike and spend $$$$ on it, yet it is only when you ride her on the trails, spend time with her, tune her, buy her new parts, does love blossom even further between the two of you and a certain bond forms, essentially becoming one with the bike . . . ahem, anyway, back to love ;D Love is defined by actions, moments, and an extreme urge to get to know the person, and let her know you in return. Without these components, I think we end up putting the object of our affection in a pedestal. We weave our hopes and dreams of a perfect relationship, we expand all the good qualities and believe that somehow he or she is the perfect one. At any rate, these are just my ramblings and they may make sense to you or not. I don;t know the lady of your affection and don't know what your status is with her. If you're Christian, I'd recommend a book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. Gives you a sharper perspective on love, relationships, all being centered on God. But don't stop there. About letting go of our false notions on love and relationships. But don;t stop there. Read on to Boy Meets Girl and change your perspective, regain hope that somewhere out there, God has intended for you to meet someone you will cherish, care for, encourage to grow, and consequently encourage you to be a better man. Again, tt takes two to tango. A ride and his bike ;D Source: Philo 101, The Road Less Travelled, Boy Meets Girl, I Kissed Dating Goodbye another one..very well placed! I love the way you analogize love into purchasing a bike..very well done  and yes i am a God fearing Christian and would take your advice in reading those books..hmm! You seem like a very nice person to talk to sir marcs..are you into Philosphy as well? Looking forward to chatting with you in one of our rides.. ;D Thanks very much for your response! I can only place into words my deepest emotion of greatfulness from your support  |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 8, 2005 17:20:58 GMT 8
hey...joseph...uwi kana....lets ride nalang..para makalimutan mo na yan........collect some good old bike...take it from me.....i'm doing it right now........ Thanks sir Raven, we will.. |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 8, 2005 17:22:29 GMT 8
just noticed how many read this thread..and much more how many replied in such a short amount of time..  just proves that there are still a lot of soft hearted people in this world experiencing the pains, sufferings, ang glory of Love.. ;D To God be the Glory and mey He bless you all! Thank you to all!!! |
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Post by feline13 on Aug 8, 2005 17:32:46 GMT 8
I think it takes two to tango Love is supposed to be an extension of oneself (which is why the attraction, your borders expand to include the other person, and for that brief moment, you feel like one with the universe as your personal limitations are shattered) Love is yet the driving force and at the same time the result of working at it together (love at first sight moved you to buy that bike and spend $$$$ on it, yet it is only when you ride her on the trails, spend time with her, tune her, buy her new parts, does love blossom even further between the two of you and a certain bond forms, essentially becoming one with the bike . . . ahem, anyway, back to love ;D Love is defined by actions, moments, and an extreme urge to get to know the person, and let her know you in return. Without these components, I think we end up putting the object of our affection in a pedestal. We weave our hopes and dreams of a perfect relationship, we expand all the good qualities and believe that somehow he or she is the perfect one. At any rate, these are just my ramblings and they may make sense to you or not. I don;t know the lady of your affection and don't know what your status is with her. If you're Christian, I'd recommend a book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. Gives you a sharper perspective on love, relationships, all being centered on God. But don't stop there. About letting go of our false notions on love and relationships. But don;t stop there. Read on to Boy Meets Girl and change your perspective, regain hope that somewhere out there, God has intended for you to meet someone you will cherish, care for, encourage to grow, and consequently encourage you to be a better man. Again, tt takes two to tango. A ride and his bike ;D Source: Philo 101, The Road Less Travelled, Boy Meets Girl, I Kissed Dating Goodbye yup-- boy meets girl and i kissed dating goodbye.. highly recommended |
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Post by fullspeed on Aug 8, 2005 17:47:29 GMT 8
I read those books very nice! Marcs - where do you go to church? Dirtrat - Cris naman ... Me? Joe d'mango? Have you seen the size of those eyeballs ? eh liit mata ko eh hehehe |
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Post by basti on Aug 8, 2005 17:49:09 GMT 8
ei respectus! cheer up brad! ;D get back on the groove again... like most of the peeps who responded here, bike lang ng bike!!! ;D eventually makaka-recover ka din. you kow brad, i was once in a depression just like you... my ex-gf and i broke up(that was 2 yrs ago). i was so depressed back then...and my friends help me to pick up myself... taught me how to be strong and focus on other thing...like biking. yes! my depression gave birth to my passion on mountain biking... that's how my bike was born! then last time(my "Matters of the Heart" thing), i was once again so depressed coz i was rejected. i made myself so drunk that i almost vomit my entire digestive system(sorry for the metaphoric word...  ) and even punch a wall...almost broke my bone back then. but now i'm moving on and back on dating again.... making new friends with the opposite sex... trying to understand them more. but honestly, i still dream of Cecille(the reason i punch a wall.. ;D) and me together.... but i know it will never happen.... basta brad, you're not the only one who's experiencing this kinda stuff....cheer up brad! i remember someone told me here in PinoyMTBiker a very touchin line that i will never forget... COLLECT LANG NG COLLECT, THEN SELECT! ;D but without hurting anybody syempre.... another thing brad, pray to HIM....he will gladly help you to move on and accompany you to the right woman for you... God bless you, brother! Peace! |
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Post by rbc on Aug 8, 2005 18:25:53 GMT 8
respectus,
One solution that comes to mind is, ride DH on the weekend.
Nothing like a ride of about 40 mins to an hour where you have to focus only on what you are doing. Just you, your bike, and nature( with gravity playing a major role), as some good friends of your choice. For me, it's the best therapy to work out the stress of modern day living.
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Post by whoopi on Aug 8, 2005 19:50:27 GMT 8
The Road Less Travelled by m. scott peck as mentioned by MARCS is highly recommended. i've read it twice in this lifetime. read the chapter on love lang, might make you see the light also, i'm no expert on grief and broken hearts, but here's something that i came across years ago that i thought made sense (at least at the theoretical level). the author was writing about marriage actually, i'm just choosing relevant paragraphs. MARCS and CHEENKY might be familiar with this author, eduardo calasanz. he's a legend in ateneo even during my time. MARCS & CHEENKY, is he still teaching philosophy in the college? The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility. Good people can create a bad relationship, even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed.
It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages.
Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side. This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept up into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term. If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh, you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.
Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter. Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to turn you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.
After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief.
Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.
Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance does not become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.
There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.
So choose carefully and well.
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Post by MrsM on Aug 8, 2005 23:21:07 GMT 8
I guess most of us have had their hearts broken at one time or another. Don't worry, you will get over it. It just doesn't feel that way now because you are still hurting. You still need time to heal. The next girl you will love is very lucky, because I think you are a very sensitive and caring person. Rare is the man who opens up himself and lets others see that he is hurting. They think it will make them seem less manly. But in my opinion, that makes him more of a man. I am very impressed with men who admit that they loved and lost. It makes them more endearing.
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Post by allegra on Aug 9, 2005 1:03:16 GMT 8
Dudes and Dudettes , I wana take a survey , curious lang ako Here's the scenario : Jesse wants to date other guys so she breaks up with Justin her bf After a week , this happens - Situation 1 - Justin1 calling jesse's cel for the 50th time this week Justin 1: Helo Jes , how are you? Miss na kita Jesse : ah ok Justin1: did you like the flowers I sent you? Jesse: ya thanks Justin1 : how about the longanisang lucban and pancit habhab? Jesse : ya, sarap daw thanks Justin1 : ihatid na kita mamaya , signal no.3 daw eh Jesse : thats ok , di na, sanay naman ako sa kidlat ,kulog at baha Justin1 : Jesse, I love you please come back! Jesse : Dami pakong work , sige ah, txt txt nalang OR Situation 2 - Jesse is a little annoyed na parang baliwala kay justin2 ( the legend of barrio putho ) ang break up so she calls him up Jesse : hey you , kamusta na Justin2 : eto, gwapo pa rin wassup? Jesse : di ka manlang tumatawag Justin2 : toxic eh, kaw na maging artista Jesse : Sira . FYI lang , I'm dating Fulgoso , yung gym instructor Justin2 : that's great! bagay kayo at least you have the same cup size hehe kidding Jesse : how about you , seeing anyone yet ? Justin2 : Secret! hehe Jesse : Miss ko na rin kalokohan mo.How about coffee and kwentuhan tonight? Justin2 : cant eh , sorry . Jess, talk to you another time, I have a date tonight.Bye ! olrayt guys and girls, imagine yourselve's in Jesse's shoes in the above scenarios Sinong justin ang babalikan nyo? Yung 1 or yung 2?  This message will self destruct in 24hrs or just before my a$$ gets shot whichever comes first |
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Post by hingal aso on Aug 9, 2005 4:28:58 GMT 8
Dudes and Dudettes , I wana take a survey , curious lang ako Here's the scenario : Jesse wants to date other guys so she breaks up with Justin her bf After a week , this happens - Situation 1 - Justin1 calling jesse's cel for the 50th time this week Justin 1: Helo Jes , how are you? Miss na kita Jesse : ah ok Justin1: did you like the flowers I sent you? Jesse: ya thanks Justin1 : how about the longanisang lucban and pancit habhab? Jesse : ya, sarap daw thanks Justin1 : ihatid na kita mamaya , signal no.3 daw eh Jesse : thats ok , di na, sanay naman ako sa kidlat ,kulog at baha Justin1 : Jesse, I love you please come back! Jesse : Dami pakong work , sige ah, txt txt nalang OR Situation 2 - Jesse is a little annoyed na parang baliwala kay justin2 ( the legend of barrio putho ) ang break up so she calls him up Jesse : hey you , kamusta na Justin2 : eto, gwapo pa rin wassup? Jesse : di ka manlang tumatawag Justin2 : toxic eh, kaw na maging artista Jesse : Sira . FYI lang , I'm dating Fulgoso , yung gym instructor Justin2 : that's great! bagay kayo at least you have the same cup size hehe kidding Jesse : how about you , seeing anyone yet ? Justin2 : Secret! hehe Jesse : Miss ko na rin kalokohan mo.How about coffee and kwentuhan tonight? Justin2 : cant eh , sorry . Jess, talk to you another time, I have a date tonight.Bye ! olrayt guys and girls, imagine yourselve's in Jesse's shoes in the above scenarios Sinong justin ang babalikan nyo? Yung 1 or yung 2? This message will self destruct in 24hrs or just before my a$$ gets shot whichever comes first Di tumatalab and San Mig Light sa yo. Kailangan RedHorse or better lambanog na may pasas o bubblegum (basta make sure na i-chew ang pasas o bubblegum) |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 9, 2005 7:04:55 GMT 8
The Road Less Travelled by m. scott peck as mentioned by MARCS is highly recommended. i've read it twice in this lifetime. read the chapter on love lang, might make you see the light also, i'm no expert on grief and broken hearts, but here's something that i came across years ago that i thought made sense (at least at the theoretical level). the author was writing about marriage actually, i'm just choosing relevant paragraphs. MARCS and CHEENKY might be familiar with this author, eduardo calasanz. he's a legend in ateneo even during my time. MARCS & CHEENKY, is he still teaching philosophy in the college? The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility. Good people can create a bad relationship, even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed.
It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages.
Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side. This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept up into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term. If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh, you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.
Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter. Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to turn you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.
After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief.
Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.
Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance does not become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.
There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.
So choose carefully and well. Beautiful..simply Beautiful ;D Thanks for sharing Mam Whoopi |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 9, 2005 7:06:10 GMT 8
I guess most of us have had their hearts broken at one time or another. Don't worry, you will get over it. It just doesn't feel that way now because you are still hurting. You still need time to heal. The next girl you will love is very lucky, because I think you are a very sensitive and caring person. Rare is the man who opens up himself and lets others see that he is hurting. They think it will make them seem less manly. But in my opinion, that makes him more of a man. I am very impressed with men who admit that they loved and lost. It makes them more endearing. Mam mrsmcvarki, Thank you for the kind words..flattering but truly uplifting |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 9, 2005 7:08:22 GMT 8
Sir Basti, Thanks for the cheer brad! Appreciate it! I am actually moving on..I am not as bad as I used to be..I was just wondering if what Im going through is normal and also wanted the back support from people..Thanks so much! ;D I have always consulted Him with this matters brad..w/o Him I dont know how I would get through this..but I always tell myself He has a good purpose out of all the trial we have..and I know He will provide the right one..if not now..someday Godbless you too brad! Sir Rbc, Thanks! I have and always done that..That is actually what got me into DH riding too |
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Post by fullspeed on Aug 9, 2005 9:43:02 GMT 8
Dudes and Dudettes , I wana take a survey , curious lang ako Here's the scenario : Jesse wants to date other guys so she breaks up with Justin her bf After a week , this happens - Situation 1 - Justin1 calling jesse's cel for the 50th time this week Justin 1: Helo Jes , how are you? Miss na kita Jesse : ah ok Justin1: did you like the flowers I sent you? Jesse: ya thanks Justin1 : how about the longanisang lucban and pancit habhab? Jesse : ya, sarap daw thanks Justin1 : ihatid na kita mamaya , signal no.3 daw eh Jesse : thats ok , di na, sanay naman ako sa kidlat ,kulog at baha Justin1 : Jesse, I love you please come back! Jesse : Dami pakong work , sige ah, txt txt nalang OR Situation 2 - Jesse is a little annoyed na parang baliwala kay justin2 ( the legend of barrio putho ) ang break up so she calls him up Jesse : hey you , kamusta na Justin2 : eto, gwapo pa rin wassup? Jesse : di ka manlang tumatawag Justin2 : toxic eh, kaw na maging artista Jesse : Sira . FYI lang , I'm dating Fulgoso , yung gym instructor Justin2 : that's great! bagay kayo at least you have the same cup size hehe kidding Jesse : how about you , seeing anyone yet ? Justin2 : Secret! hehe Jesse : Miss ko na rin kalokohan mo.How about coffee and kwentuhan tonight? Justin2 : cant eh , sorry . Jess, talk to you another time, I have a date tonight.Bye ! olrayt guys and girls, imagine yourselve's in Jesse's shoes in the above scenarios Sinong justin ang babalikan nyo? Yung 1 or yung 2? This message will self destruct in 24hrs or just before my a$$ gets shot whichever comes first HEHEHEHE ayos #2! |
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Post by weekendrider on Aug 9, 2005 10:14:53 GMT 8
Heartbroken, can't forget. You will, it takes time. But always remember there's another girl out there that's right for you, keep looking.
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Post by duldog on Aug 9, 2005 10:19:31 GMT 8
I guess most of us have had their hearts broken at one time or another. Don't worry, you will get over it. It just doesn't feel that way now because you are still hurting. You still need time to heal. The next girl you will love is very lucky, because I think you are a very sensitive and caring person. Rare is the man who opens up himself and lets others see that he is hurting. They think it will make them seem less manly. But in my opinion, that makes him more of a man. I am very impressed with men who admit that they loved and lost. It makes them more endearing. You're right on madam! Been there done that ;D Had been broken hearted also, I took real good care of the next girl who came along that i even went to the point of "takot sa syota" and she's emploiting everything that i can offer. But what the hell, I still like my previous girl and had recently had been communicating with her. who knows what happens next and i'll just let nature take its course! |
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Post by fullspeed on Aug 9, 2005 11:21:17 GMT 8
Heartbroken, can't forget. You will, it takes time. But always remember there's another girl out there that's right for you, keep looking. Right idol. We call that your G.P.C. or GOD'S PERFECT CHOICE. Trust God. And let your faith lead you to the right woman Ang pag-ibig nga naman... always a box office hit here in PinoyMTBiker ;D |
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Post by Ben Dover on Aug 9, 2005 11:32:33 GMT 8
allegra, situation #2 reminds me of the song "you're so vain" by carly simon...it works for others though hehe! thats one good advice mrsmcvarki. forget? i dont think anyone can..and i dont think anyone should...dyan tayo natututo. dont worry about the pain respectus, it will go away believe me dami rin palang romantiko sa PinoyMTBiker. |
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Post by marcs on Aug 9, 2005 11:58:48 GMT 8
I've seen lots of lady friends go for scenario 2 . . . Dudes and Dudettes , I wana take a survey , curious lang ako Here's the scenario : Jesse wants to date other guys so she breaks up with Justin her bf After a week , this happens - Situation 1 - Justin1 calling jesse's cel for the 50th time this week Justin 1: Helo Jes , how are you? Miss na kita Jesse : ah ok Justin1: did you like the flowers I sent you? Jesse: ya thanks Justin1 : how about the longanisang lucban and pancit habhab? Jesse : ya, sarap daw thanks Justin1 : ihatid na kita mamaya , signal no.3 daw eh Jesse : thats ok , di na, sanay naman ako sa kidlat ,kulog at baha Justin1 : Jesse, I love you please come back! Jesse : Dami pakong work , sige ah, txt txt nalang OR Situation 2 - Jesse is a little annoyed na parang baliwala kay justin2 ( the legend of barrio putho ) ang break up so she calls him up Jesse : hey you , kamusta na Justin2 : eto, gwapo pa rin wassup? Jesse : di ka manlang tumatawag Justin2 : toxic eh, kaw na maging artista Jesse : Sira . FYI lang , I'm dating Fulgoso , yung gym instructor Justin2 : that's great! bagay kayo at least you have the same cup size hehe kidding Jesse : how about you , seeing anyone yet ? Justin2 : Secret! hehe Jesse : Miss ko na rin kalokohan mo.How about coffee and kwentuhan tonight? Justin2 : cant eh , sorry . Jess, talk to you another time, I have a date tonight.Bye ! olrayt guys and girls, imagine yourselve's in Jesse's shoes in the above scenarios Sinong justin ang babalikan nyo? Yung 1 or yung 2? This message will self destruct in 24hrs or just before my a$$ gets shot whichever comes first HEHEHEHE ayos #2! |
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Post by rab on Aug 9, 2005 12:31:11 GMT 8
fifteen years ago, on my last year in college, i had a girlfriend back in the province. we were so in love that we even pray novenas na sana kami ang magkatuluyan. two years later we didn't end up together. she married a friend of mine a year after we broke up. later i saw her in makati, walking hand in hand with another guy not my friend. then just last year i heard that she left her husband and her kids for another man. good thing God did not answer our prayers before.
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Post by allegra on Aug 9, 2005 15:22:54 GMT 8
allegra, situation #2 reminds me of the song "you're so vain" by carly simon...it works for others though hehe! *************************** The meek shall inherit the earth The arrogant gets the mineral rights |
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Post by Eikichi on Aug 9, 2005 22:41:05 GMT 8
do you guys believe that you can love someone without her actually being aware?  Ayyyyy sobra pre nangyayari yan, like in my case everybody in our block knows that i got a thing to this chick, yet it seems that shes the only one wh doesnt know that I love her so much  |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 10, 2005 6:54:53 GMT 8
do you guys believe that you can love someone without her actually being aware? Ayyyyy sobra pre nangyayari yan, like in my case everybody in our block knows that i got a thing to this chick, yet it seems that shes the only one wh doesnt know that I love her so much a thing? Love? Are you sure its really Love? This not quite the thing I was pertaining too.. |
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Post by [ eRECTUS ] on Aug 10, 2005 6:56:31 GMT 8
fifteen years ago, on my last year in college, i had a girlfriend back in the province. we were so in love that we even pray novenas na sana kami ang magkatuluyan. two years later we didn't end up together. she married a friend of mine a year after we broke up. later i saw her in makati, walking hand in hand with another guy not my friend. then just last year i heard that she left her husband and her kids for another man. good thing God did not answer our prayers before. Actually kind of the same thing happend to me.. we almost got married until she left me for someone else..then she."tsk tsk tsk" but not the the extremes of her getting married..  true God has a reason for Everything! ;D |
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![[ eRECTUS ] Avatar](http://s19.photobucket.com/albums/b192/waknano/2038.gif)
) and even punch a wall...almost broke my bone back then. but now i'm moving on and back on dating again.... making new friends with the opposite sex... trying to understand them more. but honestly, i still dream of Cecille(the reason i punch a wall.. ;D) and me together.... but i know it will never happen....
