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Post by maxbuwaya on Aug 8, 2005 19:51:13 GMT 8
So the pinoys here cant have jane
hehehehehe
how bout aetas?
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Post by donbautist on Aug 8, 2005 20:15:11 GMT 8
[glow=red,2,300]MEOW SI!!!![/glow]
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Post by allegra on Aug 8, 2005 23:05:18 GMT 8
So the pinoys here cant have jane hehehehehe how bout aetas? hahahahaha Jane, the Lindsay Lohan of mtbiking
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Post by Eikichi on Jul 21, 2006 18:07:10 GMT 8
Guys just an update whew (share ko lang) The last time I saw her is during my OJT days (before summer of 06) I didnt have the strenght nor the courage to say hi to her, yet I know it gave me a new life. Not until this time when I heard the news that she already migrated to Canada along with her relatives. Somehow I feel upset but in the other hand it gave me a relief
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 6, 2006 16:43:06 GMT 8
Eikichi, I'm going to assume you're not Chinese. That is the only safe assumption I can make with your heart-rending question on why Chinese girls are for Chinese men only, and why it is unfair. I love to tell you, anak, about the birds and the bees... but first you have to answer the following questions: Part I. True or False. Is there such a thing as Chinese Girls are for Chinese men only, and Christian Girls are for Christian men only, and Rich Girls are for rich men only? Part II. Logic reasoning. Aren't all men created equal? Why is there such a thing as an issue in Part I? What is your theory?
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 7, 2006 10:06:49 GMT 8
Good morning class!
This topic falls under the classification of ETHICS and HUMAN BEHAVIOR. This is an interesting discussion and calls for serious thought.
Any theories anyone?
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 7, 2006 10:50:57 GMT 8
Yeah I heard that from some Chinese friends too- but someone told me that they don't want Filipinos coz we are "lazy"... Come on I don't believe that @#$%! They're only workaholic ;D Relax, my Mr. Cool. Laziness, like talent and beauty, is not reserved for a particular type of people. Neither is workaholism, alcoholism, or whatever type of isms. So there you go. Sweeping comments can sometimes be quite inaccurate, and generalizations unfair and short-sighted (or narrow-minded). It actually shows the lack of finesse in the person whose mouth spoketh those words. Don't you agree?
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Post by Dragunov on Oct 7, 2006 10:53:10 GMT 8
Eikichi, I'm going to assume you're not Chinese. That is the only safe assumption I can make with your heart-rending question on why Chinese girls are for Chinese men only, and why it is unfair. I love to tell you, anak, about the birds and the bees... but first you have to answer the following questions: Part I. True or False. Is there such a thing as Chinese Girls are for Chinese men only, and Christian Girls are for Christian men only, and Rich Girls are for rich men only? Part II. Logic reasoning. Aren't all men created equal? Why is there such a thing as an issue in Part I? What is your theory? an advise for pinoy seeking chinay! ;D always buy two gifts!! one for her and one for her mom ! ;D hehehe and dont go lower than 5k ;D
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 7, 2006 11:05:54 GMT 8
you can always prove them wrong.. Unfortunately , pag nagalit si Daddy , wala mana So whats the point? Definitely a joke Unfortunately, for some, it's a painful joke (read, reality). Dialogue might be something like this... Dad to daughter: "You do as I say, marry my bestfriend's son and you will have everything you want. Marry the guy you want and I will make sure that both of you suffer, and the guy's career, and his family, suffers as well." Some families still follows this tradition, the father imposes his will (literally) on his children's future. Aren't you glad we don't have that dilemma? We would rather have our gfs (or bikes) at all cost! Regardless! NO DEAL! ;D
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Post by kulot_salot on Oct 7, 2006 11:22:20 GMT 8
Eikichi, I'm going to assume you're not Chinese. That is the only safe assumption I can make with your heart-rending question on why Chinese girls are for Chinese men only, and why it is unfair. I love to tell you, anak, about the birds and the bees... but first you have to answer the following questions: Part I. True or False. Is there such a thing as Chinese Girls are for Chinese men only, and Christian Girls are for Christian men only, and Rich Girls are for rich men only? Part II. Logic reasoning. Aren't all men created equal? Why is there such a thing as an issue in Part I? What is your theory? an advise for pinoy seeking chinay! ;D always buy two gifts!! one for her and one for her mom ! ;D hehehe and dont go lower than 5k ;D ..will agree with peter on this... hehehe... ;D
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Post by Patrick on Oct 7, 2006 12:23:34 GMT 8
I pity the fool ;D I remember the intense need to please the girls parents, but at the end of the day, im still a brown pinoy hehe. Good thing our relationship ended, because its better to be yourself and its better being liked for it.
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Post by Dragunov on Oct 7, 2006 12:31:38 GMT 8
I pity the fool ;D I remember the intense need to please the girls parents, but at the end of the day, im still a brown pinoy hehe. Good thing our relationship ended, because its better to be yourself and its better being liked for it. your right on target patrick hehehe, just want to inform u guys that its the norms with chinays but not all ;D
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Post by joes on Oct 7, 2006 20:34:37 GMT 8
Good morning class! This topic falls under the classification of ETHICS and HUMAN BEHAVIOR. This is an interesting discussion and calls for serious thought. Any theories anyone? - to keep the money within. from what i've heard. the macapagal-arroyo's kid did the same thing by marrying his distant cousin. i guess inbreeding is trendy.
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Post by Benj on Oct 7, 2006 23:56:53 GMT 8
i think this chinese tradition is being observed mostly by wealthy families. i know a lot of poor or middle class' chinese-filipino women who married filipino men. my mom is chinese, came from a poor family, and yet, he married my dad who is a pure and poor filipino.
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Post by allegra on Oct 8, 2006 7:38:49 GMT 8
Unfortunately , pag nagalit si Daddy , wala mana So whats the point? Definitely a joke Unfortunately, for some, it's a painful joke (read, reality). Dialogue might be something like this... Dad to daughter: "You do as I say, marry my bestfriend's son and you will have everything you want. Marry the guy you want and I will make sure that both of you suffer, and the guy's career, and his family, suffers as well." Some families still follows this tradition, the father imposes his will (literally) on his children's future. Aren't you glad we don't have that dilemma? We would rather have our gfs (or bikes) at all cost! Regardless! NO DEAL! ;D Nah , maybe the old traditional chinese families but not anymore Hey , I've used that excuse before and I'm not even chinese You gotta admit it's an excuse w/ no loopholes If a female is madly in love , not even eternal condemnation from her family is gonna stop her from being w/ her guy
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 8, 2006 8:18:29 GMT 8
Good morning class! This topic falls under the classification of ETHICS and HUMAN BEHAVIOR. This is an interesting discussion and calls for serious thought. Any theories anyone? - to keep the money within. from what i've heard. the macapagal-arroyo's kid did the same thing by marrying his distant cousin. i guess inbreeding is trendy. pwede rin siguro to get money without? ;D levity aside, this idea or practice or whatever you may call it somehow irritates me.
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 8, 2006 9:07:32 GMT 8
Unfortunately, for some, it's a painful joke (read, reality). Dialogue might be something like this... Dad to daughter: "You do as I say, marry my bestfriend's son and you will have everything you want. Marry the guy you want and I will make sure that both of you suffer, and the guy's career, and his family, suffers as well." Some families still follows this tradition, the father imposes his will (literally) on his children's future. Aren't you glad we don't have that dilemma? We would rather have our gfs (or bikes) at all cost! Regardless! NO DEAL! ;D Nah , maybe the old traditional chinese families but not anymore Hey , I've used that excuse before and I'm not even chinese You gotta admit it's an excuse w/ no loopholes If a female is madly in love , not even eternal condemnation from her family is gonna stop her from being w/ her guy yup, i've seen the movie crouching tiger, hidden dragon. ;D the truth is within you allegra
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Post by allegra on Oct 8, 2006 14:02:28 GMT 8
- to keep the money within. from what i've heard. the macapagal-arroyo's kid did the same thing by marrying his distant cousin. i guess inbreeding is trendy. pwede rin siguro to get money without? ;D levity aside, this idea or practice or whatever you may call it somehow irritates me. The practice is wrong , but practical I think If the girl is born rich , the guy she chooses should be just as rich or at least close to. Kasi he'll be the provider If it's the guy who comes from a rich family , then he can marry anyone he wants. He just better watch out lang, kasi no girl frm a different economic background is going to be good enough for his mother Moral of the story - work hard, get rich , marry a hot babe and leave the chinese alone
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Post by joes on Oct 8, 2006 19:12:26 GMT 8
it really doesn't matter much to me. shame though. chinese girls, you don't know what you're missing! hahahahaha.
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Post by Benj on Oct 8, 2006 19:56:50 GMT 8
just a comment.
i think it is not proper to address them as "chinese" because in the first place, they are filipinos. tsaka let us avoind saying something which is unpleasant to their ears, baka nakakasakit naman tayo ng damdamin nyan. hehehe! it just so hapend that they have chinese origin/ancestors.
i think the proper and correct term to use is: chinese filipinos; chinese - being used as an adjective to describe the subject. example is: mestisong pinoy (in other words: pinoy na mestiso), parang ganon lang po yon. ibig sabihin eh pinoy pa rin sya, nagkataon lang na mestiso sya. it is even incorrect to say: filipino-chinese if you use them as the subject/noun.
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Post by allegra on Oct 8, 2006 21:15:25 GMT 8
just a comment. i think it is not proper to address them as "chinese" because in the first place, they are filipinos. tsaka let us avoind saying something which is unpleasant to their ears, baka nakakasakit naman tayo ng damdamin nyan. hehehe! it just so hapend that they have chinese origin/ancestors. i think the proper and correct term to use is: chinese filipinos; chinese - being used as an adjective to describe the subject. example is: mestisong pinoy (in other words: pinoy na mestiso), parang ganon lang po yon. ibig sabihin eh pinoy pa rin sya, nagkataon lang na mestiso sya. it is even incorrect to say: filipino-chinese if you use them as the subject/noun. Hi there , When I sadi Chinese, I meant 100% pure who's parents came from the mainland. Fil -chinese refer to citizenship Chi-Fil to describe the ethnicity
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Post by kukai on Oct 8, 2006 22:35:44 GMT 8
Yours might be bit challenging Eikichi because of the cultural challenges and differences that you go through in loving a Chinese woman (or for women loving a Chinese man)... but what’s important is what you’ve learned after going through the whole process. Yes, it takes time to accept the cold truth and eventually let go. If my memory serves me right the pain was excruciating, there’s a lot of unanswered questions and you start to question… when’s my time going to be (to love and to be loved in return)? But as they say… when there’s life there’s hope and love will find you when you least expect it. Biking can be your diversion, surround yourself with good and optimistic friends and don’t forget to reflect and pray. Now you might ask me, what was the lesson? Only you can answer that… You’ll be fine… in time. Hang-in there
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Post by pjax on Oct 8, 2006 23:52:32 GMT 8
ah. the "great wall of china"
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 9, 2006 9:14:38 GMT 8
pwede rin siguro to get money without? ;D levity aside, this idea or practice or whatever you may call it somehow irritates me. Diffirent cultures, different customs, different mentality. For King and Country, or Love or Money. It depends. Sure, we don't get to choose our parents, but we are all created equal. We all have the same 24 hours in a day, the same 2 hands, 2 feet, and a brain. We all get to choose to use them in whatever way we see fit. Don't even have to envy that others got a little more education (or a little more food on the table or a little more gasoline money in their pockets) than we do, because there are many who made it VERY BIG without much in the first place. Now, if some people chose to observe certain practices, like having 4 wives, or marrying their cousins, I can't see how it should affect me. If I can't marry a certain girl because of some tradition or parental orders, then it is not for me to judge whether the practice is right or wrong. What matters is that I did my best, and maybe we were not destined to be. But if I just admired from a distance and didn't do no effort, didn't do everything in my power to prove myself, then perhaps the problem might be simply just being not up to the test. Maybe we should all open our minds and include this in our prayers: "God, ,grant us... the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the dirfference.
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 9, 2006 9:27:28 GMT 8
work hard, get rich , marry a hot babe and leave the chinese alone Let's improve this to... Work hard, stay healthy, get rich. What's the use of all those money if you can't get it up? If you got the looks, or the dough, or both... hot babes, all types included, will naturally follow.
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 9, 2006 10:04:37 GMT 8
pwede rin siguro to get money without? ;D levity aside, this idea or practice or whatever you may call it somehow irritates me. Diffirent cultures, different customs, different mentality. For King and Country, or Love or Money. It depends. Sure, we don't get to choose our parents, but we are all created equal. We all have the same 24 hours in a day, the same 2 hands, 2 feet, and a brain. We all get to choose to use them in whatever way we see fit. Don't even have to envy that others got a little more education (or a little more food on the table or a little more gasoline money in their pockets) than we do, because there are many who made it VERY BIG without much in the first place. Now, if some people chose to observe certain practices, like having 4 wives, or marrying their cousins, I can't see how it should affect me. If I can't marry a certain girl because of some tradition or parental orders, then it is not for me to judge whether the practice is right or wrong. What matters is that I did my best, and maybe we were not destined to be. But if I just admired from a distance and didn't do no effort, didn't do everything in my power to prove myself, then perhaps the problem might be simply just being not up to the test. Maybe we should all open our minds and include this in our prayers: "God, ,grant us... the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the dirfference. let me ask you a hypothetical question sir. you joined a race...and then there was this group that in their own little culture believes that making an opponent crash is part of the race..as expected, they sent you crashing to the end of your race. now whose fault was that? you knew from the beginning that they were going to that but still you tried and did your best..still they were successful. tama..depende kung anong klaseng tao ka. if its in talibans culture to blast non-muslims to pieces, shoot their own women for not wearing a burkha...ano nga namang pakialam natin dun? and who are we to gudge? "Don't even have to envy that others got a little more education (or a little more food on the table or a little more gasoline money in their pockets) than we do, because there are many who made it VERY BIG without much in the first place." exactly! so why discriminate? we are all created equal but some people think they are "more" equal. God gave us the faculties to see, feel, taste etc. to feel anger, pride, irritation,insecurity, fear and to feel uncomfortable are all natural..they are part and parcel of being human..am not sure if you will agree with me...pero sapalagay mas maraming nagawa yang mga emotions na yan to shape this world than being happy and comfortable.
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Post by gadgets88 on Oct 13, 2006 8:39:45 GMT 8
let me ask you a hypothetical question sir. you joined a race...and then there was this group that in their own little culture believes that making an opponent crash is part of the race..as expected, they sent you crashing to the end of your race. now whose fault was that? you knew from the beginning that they were going to that but still you tried and did your best..still they were successful. You joined a derby, you got beat up. You did your best, that's great. What fault? tama..depende kung anong klaseng tao ka. if its in talibans culture to blast non-muslims to pieces, shoot their own women for not wearing a burkha...ano nga namang pakialam natin dun? and who are we to gudge? Exactly. Customs and traditions are based on subjective community acceptance. There is no right or wrong. It depends. Sometimes we can't even judge morality and decency simply because they are "people born of a lesser god" (people who are unfortunate in some way)... What I would like to point out is that: It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. If we didn't try at all, we might spend the rest of our lives thinking what could have been... would have been... what ifs... sana...
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Post by Ben Dover on Oct 13, 2006 9:58:00 GMT 8
what made you think that if you tried and lost (esp under those circumstances) that will make you stop thinking of what ifs? some people just stop (some without even trying) and some just dont. "You joined a derby, you got beat up. You did your best, that's great. What fault? " wanna play pocker with me sometime? ( that's a joke ;D ) levity aside sir, if you live by your words then i salute you...you are not in danger of dying of hypertension
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