bocoycoy
All-Mountain Rider
Ride...ride...ride... \m/
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Post by bocoycoy on Nov 22, 2007 13:49:30 GMT 8
hey bros...need help..
i'm in love with someone..kaya lang, she has special someone na...and the sad part there is that...close friend na sila...as in close na talaga... ;D before they became lovers, close friend sila....uhuhuhuhuh
what shall i do?!?!
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Post by allegra on Nov 22, 2007 13:57:46 GMT 8
she's married ano!!  just kidding |
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Post by marcs on Nov 22, 2007 14:03:15 GMT 8
unless you really feel that it should be the two of you instead, that you are indeed the better persion for her rather than this guy, then i say just let it go.
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Post by randiezbee on Nov 22, 2007 14:11:11 GMT 8
the best proof of your love is to set her free mate
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Post by yukon on Nov 22, 2007 14:40:44 GMT 8
hmmmm....sounds familiar.
Let it go brad...kasi you might get hurt more. I've known someone who got stuck in the same situation believe me its real sticky.
Does the gal know that you're in love with her?
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Post by anthrax76 on Nov 22, 2007 14:44:11 GMT 8
yeah, err...let go man maybe somebody out there is saying the same to you. |
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Post by enzo on Nov 22, 2007 14:47:45 GMT 8
hey bros...need help.. i'm in love with someone..kaya lang, she has special someone na...and the sad part there is that...close friend na sila...as in close na talaga... ;D before they became lovers, close friend sila....uhuhuhuhuh what shall i do?!?! AGAIN!!! What's with woman who is in a relationship? Daming others everywhre and you can fall in love or out of love sa dami nila. Rule no 1. dont ever go or think of getting involved, in love with a woman who is already in a relationship. Be it close or not. Rule no. 2. court only single unattached woman ;D Rule no 3. Same as rule no 1 and 2. |
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Post by maxbuwaya on Nov 22, 2007 15:06:19 GMT 8
Beerhouse ang solusyon dyan
Beerhous is the soultuion
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Post by yukon on Nov 22, 2007 15:10:30 GMT 8
cant wait for Jaymzs' reply...
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xfire
All-Mountain Rider
ride on
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Post by xfire on Nov 22, 2007 15:38:02 GMT 8
Sir, don't be a third wheel. |
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Ti-bar
XC Rider
dont be alarmed at the avatar, i didnt get it from mtbiking!
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Post by Ti-bar on Nov 22, 2007 15:53:17 GMT 8
are you in pain? why need help, is falling in love that hard for you? probably what you need is re assessment of what you really feel. ask yourself, is it really love for her, or..... love for your ownself? loving is suppose to be a positve feeling, something that will make you feel good. obviously its the other way around for you. brad, try to re assess the meaning of love para sa yo. you know love is a feeling you give without waiting for anything in return. why be hurt? are you expecting to be loved back? is she happy with the guy shes going out with? well if she is then you should be happy too... if its love you really feel for her. if not, im afraid thats not real love pre, or if it is shes not the one youre loving, youre loving no other than yourself, you want her for your own and your not happy because you cant have her. if you really love the gal be happy for her that shes with someone she loves and loves her. wag selfish brad, you will never be happy that way. cheers! lets just celebrate the fact that the one you love is happy, ok ba.  |
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Post by marcs on Nov 22, 2007 16:13:24 GMT 8
here's another point, it really depends. when you say in love with her, does this mean there was some chemistry going on between the two of you? are you really good friends? are there situations where you felt you truly deeply care for her? did she ever show signs of affection for you?
the bottomline is, how did you get to this state of falling for her?
if there was chemistry, then i say go for it. tell her how you feel! until they're married it's still fair game! just be prepared to take a NO if ever. At the very least, case closed.
if this is just you, i say again, drop it.
let's ride
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Post by Aaronchicharon on Nov 22, 2007 16:15:24 GMT 8
nothing to lose na yan pag ganyan just tell her how you feel... you're losing anyway by doing nothing, might as well try, malay mo!... speaking from experience... i tried... and i lost hahaha! ooops! i shouldn't have said that... ehehe
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you could stay single and not have to worry about someone getting angry at you whenever you upgrade your bike.
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if you really want to win... challenge him to an mtb race... loser leaves town hehehe.
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Post by gadgets88 on Nov 22, 2007 16:24:58 GMT 8
What is state/level of your relationship with the girl now? How much do you know her friends and family? Just to give you an idea (without going into the nitty-gritty stuff) When I was in the process of taking away somebody's girlfriend (gee, sounds so sinister...) I had the whole "baranggay" (the girl's closest friends, boys and girls) behind me. I were to find out later (from the girl herself when she broke up with the guy and went for me) that the whole baranggay made fun of him while defending me in front of the girl. I also had the girl's entire family rooting for me. While the guy drove a nice car and would bang his horn in front of the gate to fetch the girl, I, on the other hand, took 3 jeepney rides to get to the girl's house. I would knock and say hello to her mom and brothers and sisters. Play with the nieces and spend time at their home, instead of taking the girl out (since I'm broke all the time and my sorry-job hadn't taken off that time). Take note that I didn't focus on competing with the guy, or focused on getting the girl's attention. I did everything the guy didn't do, spend time on everybody around the girl! ;D Although the girl had already told the guy that she's considering him (and not me) as her boyfriend, when she asked all her nieces (ranging from 5-15 years old), the little girls were all unanimous with voting for Tito Nelson (the clown, who taught them to sing silly songs and draw silly pictures). Even her mom said she's irritated with the guy who's blowing his horn noisily and said it's alright if the other guy doesn't have a car, he's so lovable to the kids naman. Tip for the day! You can be dirt poor, downright ugly with a heart (and brain) of gold. It can be done! |
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bengski
Lurker
" iF iT AinT BrOkeN DonT FiX iT "
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Post by bengski on Nov 22, 2007 16:39:06 GMT 8
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Post by fullspeed on Nov 22, 2007 17:08:02 GMT 8
Close friend pa lang, so still "legal" to make your move Plan your move brad, as Sun Tzu's art of war would teach you: “Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat.” All is fair in love and war... best way is to attack when your enemy least expect it. If all fails, please refer to suggestions of Maxbuwaya (beerhouse) and Bengski (Alcohol) Joke lang brad Just dont regret not trying hard enough while you still can |
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Post by kulot_salot on Nov 22, 2007 17:49:35 GMT 8
'waiting in vain' ka pre....
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Post by allegra on Nov 22, 2007 20:31:44 GMT 8
I'm intrigued Is her bf seloso , insecure , ma drama? if yes , may pagasa even if they are new and close If he's cool , funny , mayabang/confident , then forget about it , your just wasting your time she's probably still too infatuated w/ him Hey , your from Cebu Throw a stick and you'll hit 10 beautiful girls there, why look for sakit ng katawan |
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DarKman
Urban Assaulter
Ride Hard... or Go Home.
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Post by DarKman on Nov 22, 2007 21:07:33 GMT 8
Grab her by the arm, look her in the eye and tell her everything you feel n matter how incoherent it will sound...
If you don't you have the rest of you life to live thinking "why didn't I just say my peace when I had the chance?"
"Hey , your from Cebu
Throw a stick and you'll hit 10 beautiful girls there, why look for sakit ng katawan"
-- you got that right brad, too many girls in Cebu you can fall madly in love with...d@mn!
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Post by Ben Dover on Nov 22, 2007 21:58:40 GMT 8
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Post by allegra on Nov 22, 2007 22:36:14 GMT 8
Ok lang tumawa? I'm sorry , I just cant help it I think it's fake though if it's not, sorry ulit |
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Post by Patrick on Nov 22, 2007 23:02:15 GMT 8
hey bros...need help.. i'm in love with someone..kaya lang, she has special someone na...and the sad part there is that...close friend na sila...as in close na talaga... ;D before they became lovers, close friend sila....uhuhuhuhuh what shall i do?!?! You should move on, looks like you 2 don't have the spark enough for her to leave the guy since your asking for help in the forum. Yes alcohol is the answer...makes it easier...seriously. Or fall for another taken girl, you might get lucky next time hehe Take it from me I should know, my wife left her bf for me hehe. |
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Post by knobbyist on Nov 22, 2007 23:22:25 GMT 8
go for it brad. just tell her how you feel lest you wanna spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been. if she says no then take it like a man and drown yourself in alcohol. hehehe! joke lang yun ah?! seriously malay mo all the while she has feelings for you as well. but if its a no... then that is the only time when you can really move on. btw where in cebu can i throw a stick and hit 10 beautiful girls... i'll throw myself instead. hahaha! ;D |
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Post by mountguitars on Nov 23, 2007 2:10:28 GMT 8
you know what they say, its better to have loved than not to have loved at all. give it a shot and lets see what happens. if she doesnt feel the same way for you then let it go. you're from cebu pa naman. dami girls dyan. dont be afraid . |
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Post by g.b.b on Nov 23, 2007 3:07:45 GMT 8
here's a saying: "kung ang asawa nasusulot, syota pa kaya"
i've learn that from experience........... trust those word and give us an update......
sometimes i share pa nga e...... ask bruce or xctofi... they know what i mean..... ;D
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Post by xctofi on Nov 23, 2007 6:11:32 GMT 8
here's a saying: "kung ang asawa nasusulot, syota pa kaya" i've learn that from experience........... trust those word and give us an update...... sometimes i share pa nga e...... ask bruce or xctofi... they know what i mean..... ;D i dont know anything Bri  “It's better to regret something you did than to regret something you didn't do.” (or something to that effect,im still sleepy  ) go for it.let her know, if it fails then F it, ang daming babae chong! but at least you tried. but make sure its not gonna change anything between your friendship.sayang naman. you'll never know unless you try e. i'd be willing to give you lines na pang FAMAS if you want ;D ;D ;D |
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<:jun®:>
Free Rider
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Post by <:jun®:> on Nov 23, 2007 7:00:58 GMT 8
sssssssssss... ;D
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Post by BrusKO on Nov 23, 2007 7:32:37 GMT 8
here's a saying: "kung ang asawa nasusulot, syota pa kaya" i've learn that from experience........... trust those word and give us an update...... sometimes i share pa nga e...... ask bruce or xctofi... they know what i mean..... ;D edited Someone forgot to take his meds again! And please: stop smoking that doobie! |
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Post by Lui-G on Nov 23, 2007 8:11:11 GMT 8
I know someone who can help you, señor bocoycoy...SI GOKU!!! ;D ;D ;D
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Post by ronaldarca on Nov 23, 2007 8:53:11 GMT 8
I know someone who can help you, señor bocoycoy...SI GOKU!!! ;D ;D ;D i can relate ha  sir bocoycoy... take it off your chest and move on there's alot more to the world than just emotions, truth, and love... a fact is often times these lead you to broken hopes... sounds familiar? seems you need to get out of the system dude. i believe SOMEBODY's waiting out there for you somewhere, sometime, give her a change to FIND YOU. how old are you anyway? |
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