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Post by anshwa on May 17, 2008 1:44:02 GMT 8
Amen, Enzo. Goodbye to the Santa Cruz.
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Post by rickym on May 17, 2008 6:39:58 GMT 8
i agree with sir enzo....his pic should be deleted or shall we say this topic must be deleted....for your friend own good...
nobody knows...maybe your friends ex gf is my cousin or my friend's cousin...or fellow PinoyMTBiker cousin..(hope not!)......cause it will more complicated if that is the case....
this may just put your friends in not good situation (even humilation)...
just a suggestion!!!
may or may not be consider at all....
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Post by gadgets88 on May 17, 2008 9:13:14 GMT 8
This thread should'nt have been put up in the first place. That was very ungentleman of him for treating a girl like that. I, even if i would be in the same situation, which happend alot of times, will make it a point to talk and end things up before moving to another girl. It's as easy as saying goodbye and were not meant for each other. People change, things happen for a reason, say goodbye and tell the psycho GF to move on rather than clinging to a one way relationship. I still feel that your friend bike was taken away coz he doesnt wear helmet during jumps like this. After all been discussed, the pic should be deleted. Same as Anshwa, I'll be really freakin mad too. That'll be goodbye to Santa Cruz. I agree! The Santa Cruz is not the issue. Heck, we will grow out of our frames eventually and upgrade. The girl is not a psycho, the dad isn't either. Whetever they will do to the guy if they ever catch up with him will be considered "normal and understandable" considering the circumstances. The pressing issue here is the guy's seemingly lack of guts and finesse.
If you are a very good friend of his, you can help the guy by talking to him man-to-man. The bike loss was a wake-up call. He still got his balls so he should act like he has it. Next time he might not be so lucky. If he is clueless with the ways of a man, he can learn a thing or two by seeking help from Da Man or Allegra.  |
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Post by jackass on May 17, 2008 9:43:05 GMT 8
the girl really is a lala... we knew from the very beginning that that girl will cause us problems...even when they moved to his aunt's place after palayasin from his house, his aunt gave them a small business, a car, but it was just wasted because the girl didnt want to work ( parang donya eh) (lumalabas eh ginagamit lang nya yung kaibigan ko para mamuhay ng ok). and there this one time that she even made up stories that almost had us fighting with each other.. hehehehe
ah basta.... so long for this issue.... hehehe
all i wanted to know was can we still recover the bike and what can we do about this one....
i've talked to my friend about this one and he said that they are still communicating with each other. and he said that the girl's going to bring the bike back and his belongings when she comes back here... good thing the bike still with her. hehehe
anyway, thanks for your input guys, and hehehehe kung saan na tayo napdpad nito. hehehehehehe (drifted on related probs) hehehe
hope we get the bike back....thanks .... ;D
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Post by enzo on May 17, 2008 14:11:44 GMT 8
the girl really is a lala... we knew from the very beginning that that girl will cause us problems...even when they moved to his aunt's place after palayasin from his house, his aunt gave them a small business, a car, but it was just wasted because the girl didnt want to work ( parang donya eh) (lumalabas eh ginagamit lang nya yung kaibigan ko para mamuhay ng ok). and there this one time that she even made up stories that almost had us fighting with each other.. hehehehe ah basta.... so long for this issue.... hehehe all i wanted to know was can we still recover the bike and what can we do about this one.... i've talked to my friend about this one and he said that they are still communicating with each other. and he said that the girl's going to bring the bike back and his belongings when she comes back here... good thing the bike still with her. hehehe anyway, thanks for your input guys, and hehehehe kung saan na tayo napdpad nito. hehehehehehe (drifted on related probs) hehehe hope we get the bike back....thanks .... ;D I dont know how good or bad the girl was but from what you just said, it seems they are well off and have willing relatives to help after she was thrown out of the house. so many tell tale signs but we can never tell the whole story or the problem unless we are the ones involved. Even if you knew from the beginning ( which doesnt sound right to me) you dont have any power to do anything coz your friend is the one in the relationship. Your friend is the only one who knows the situation/problem and only he can solve it. All they need is to sit down and talk things over, calm things down. Who knows, next time he got involved with another psycho, this girl will help her out or give her advice, suggestions. I for one seek "advice/suggestions" from my ex's, they can give unbiased opinion/advice. I hope he recovers his bike and make peace with the lady, but, dont press hard in recovering it right away. Lagyan lang nya ng care at lambing sa dulo. translation= a little tenderness and care will go a long way. |
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Post by gadgets88 on May 17, 2008 14:38:36 GMT 8
This is a biking forum, and you want the bike back... but that's not the point.  I dont know how good or bad the girl was but from what you just said, it seems they are well off and have willing relatives to help after she was thrown out of the house. so many tell tale signs but we can never tell the whole story or the problem unless we are the ones involved. Even if you knew from the beginning ( which doesnt sound right to me) you dont have any power to do anything coz your friend is the one in the relationship. Your friend is the only one who knows the situation/problem and only he can solve it. All they need is to sit down and talk things over, calm things down. Who knows, next time he got involved with another psycho, this girl will help her out or give her advice, suggestions. I for one seek "advice/suggestions" from my ex's, they can give unbiased opinion/advice. I hope he recovers his bike and make peace with the lady, but, dont press hard in recovering it right away. Lagyan lang nya ng care at lambing sa dulo. translation= a little tenderness and care will go a long way. That's the point! You'll get the bike back as a consequence, not as a goal! Listen and learn... from Da Man! |
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Post by nell7806 on May 17, 2008 16:38:20 GMT 8
hehehe here's the reason why they left for manila and why my friend stayed here in tacloban for good and left his things back at the girl: when they were still here in tacloban city, my friend's parents didnt accept the girl as there son's gf. hehehe so they stayed in a friend's house and decided to stay in the girl's house in manila together with her family.... then, when my friend and his aunt met there, his aunt bought him a plane ticket to tacloban at a sudden date. he peomised his gf that he'll be back and he would just fix things and issues back here. after a few months, my friend found a new gf ( better than here and prettier.hehehe). his ex gf kept on txting us that she'll commit suicide and everything drama to the max maala ala mo kaya. hehehehe when i told my friend that why dont you go back there and get your belongings, he said that they might beat him up.... hehehehehehehe 1. is the bike considered stolen or what? 2. what if they have sold the bike already? can we still get it back? 3. if the bike is still with the girl, what legal action can we make to get the bike back? hehehehehe thanks brad, don't get me wrong... i hope your friend won't find a female biker (that would mean she's the world to him) who's family would reject him then they'll decide to move to their place and after a certain period leave him to settle things back to her place, and instead of returning find another guy who's far more better than him... sometimes the best lesson in life is taking a personal dose of our own medicine... even better... hope he may learn to spell the word R E S P E C T... for his girl... for a girl's father... for his parents... for himself... and for his things... knowing how mr. tulfo's staff works, they might not help him... but still it's worth to try... the best way is to ask the authorities about that, if the girl's father is a policeman...maybe a asking another one will do, even better look for one with more stripes... the best thing is by asking them to talk things in a more civilized manner and make them feel that your sorry for what you've done although I can tell you many would really consider it as grave offense to them... and still with the presence of a neutral mediator and things seems to be hostile on the other side... let them be... money can buy 'em...-I mean don't mind to recover those things, for sure he'll have the proper amount again to purchase or have those things... hope he would learn his lesson soon enough... |
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Post by nell7806 on May 17, 2008 16:40:38 GMT 8
by the way brad...
how old is your friend???
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Post by colted on May 17, 2008 18:43:13 GMT 8
lesson learned the hard way......you may run as fast as you can.....but don't try to escape w/o ur ride,hehe:)
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Post by anshwa on May 20, 2008 0:12:28 GMT 8
the girl really is a lala... we knew from the very beginning that that girl will cause us problems...even when they moved to his aunt's place after palayasin from his house, his aunt gave them a small business, a car, but it was just wasted because the girl didnt want to work ( parang donya eh) (lumalabas eh ginagamit lang nya yung kaibigan ko para mamuhay ng ok). and there this one time that she even made up stories that almost had us fighting with each other.. hehehehe ah basta.... so long for this issue.... hehehe all i wanted to know was can we still recover the bike and what can we do about this one.... i've talked to my friend about this one and he said that they are still communicating with each other. and he said that the girl's going to bring the bike back and his belongings when she comes back here... good thing the bike still with her. hehehe anyway, thanks for your input guys, and hehehehe kung saan na tayo napdpad nito. hehehehehehe (drifted on related probs) hehehe hope we get the bike back....thanks .... ;D Like I said, too many details we don't know about this story. Now you have more stuff in the soup. It's quite unsettling to hear of these "bad" things about the girl & her family & that we can only read your friend's side of the story. The thread got into other issues because of the seemingly unreliable & unsubstantiated facts surrounding your pursuit to get your friend's bike back. Btw, in the process spreading cr@p about the girl & her family who are totally unaware of this thread. ANYWAY, give the girl & her family a break. I hope your friend does get the bike back so he could get back into riding. |
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Post by Great Teacher Ulysses on May 20, 2008 1:10:23 GMT 8
the best suggestiion here is....
ask help from BITAG - hosted by tulfo!
mayabang ito and i think dehins uubra yung psycho father nung ex. mo...
if you can give heavy grounds to ben tulfo, he might probably help you out.
matapang and mayabang, best qualities of tulfo, and it works!
sabi nga eh: patunayan mo ang yabang mo... trans: tulfo scares them really hard!
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Post by Alphabolt on May 21, 2008 22:35:49 GMT 8
geez! Bike Tulfo Cop Girl Another Girl
This has all the ingredients for a telenovela... for cyclists !
Oh BTW, bye Santa Cruz! lets just hope the girl returns with the bike only and not her dad with his bangbang
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Post by ten on May 22, 2008 14:09:00 GMT 8
This sounds fun hehehehehe....
1. the daughter of the policeman is in the loosing end.
2. they don't value the bike as much as we do.
3. doing business with the policeman is hard, but if there family is involve its much harder.
4. seek the help of a fellow cop like dayuhan said. ask the help of saver.
5. and yes try to sweet talk.
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Post by marcs on May 23, 2008 0:31:38 GMT 8
the girl really is a lala... we knew from the very beginning that that girl will cause us problems...even when they moved to his aunt's place after palayasin from his house, his aunt gave them a small business, a car, but it was just wasted because the girl didnt want to work ( parang donya eh) (lumalabas eh ginagamit lang nya yung kaibigan ko para mamuhay ng ok). and there this one time that she even made up stories that almost had us fighting with each other.. hehehehe i'm wondering, if the girl is so lala . . . why did he even bother to live with her all the way in Manila? |
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